Piratis you are being very bloody minded
i say we are both to blame you say im apportioning blame to gain what i want.
Well piratis dont you think giving and taking issues of the same magnitude will be very difficult who will decide what matches what?
Your approach is lacking in many areas of compromise and flexiblity, your saying its my way or the highway
Your mind is clearly made up Piratis and no amount of logical arguement will not change your mind, I feel I am wasting my time as you do not want to hear or accept what the other side has to say.
tcklim wrote:It's amazing how most people here are blaming everyone but themselves for the situation........
You can't solve disputes by constantly throwing blame and accusations at the other side, the sooner you realize that, the sooner you have a chance....
Good luck
You have to understand WHY Turkey did what it did
While the occupation is illegal, you cannot realistically expect Turkish troops to get up and leave tomorrow because you keep telling them that. It is nnootttt going to work.
You have to try to UNDERSTAND the other sides in my opinions very justified concerns.
The only reason they are demanding what they are demanding is for security, which the past has taught them is very unreliable living interlaced with GC's.
Instead of constantly throwing the SAME OLD THING that is constantly repeated on every single thread no matter what the topic about legality and human rights
how about trying to think a little to how to build trust and ferment friendship.
Why would a TC want to come to this evnironment where they are treated as second-class?
Now whatever I say I always get the same response so I don't know why i bother, I think this shall be my last attempt.... but I just say, in my opinion, if you want a solution stop being stubborn and contradicting yourself, such as blaming the world for your problems, not making a single effort to try resolve the problem locally through trust and friendship building actions, but instead insisting that the UN and EU do all the work for you then rejecting what they come up with and blaming them for your problems yet again.... it's sad...
What part of what I said is "bloody"? The human rights part, the democracy part, the equality without racist discrimination part? What did I say that was "bloody minded"?
Who are bloody minded are the ones who use force and are ready to shoot and kill anybody that tried to return to his own home. Thats you, not me.
Ok Viewpoint. In 1960 we made an agreement. If both are to blame then how come what you suggest is punishing the Greek Cypriots only by taking away from them and giving much more to the TCs??
Both. One example: In 1960 agreements you had veto powers in several matters, but not a federal state. If you want a federal state, you can give in return the veto. How about that? If you don't agree, then we are left with 1960 agreements which was a compromise to begin with.
No, what I am saying is "A solution should be based on human rights and democracy otherwise it is not a solution". What you say is "either you accept what we demand or we continue the illegal occupation".
Where was your logical argument. I am still waiting to hear your logical argument against democracy, against human rights, against the right for people to return to their own homes. Where is it?
Piratis wrote:You mean to understand the reason or the excuse? Don't worry, we understand both.
You apparently don't seem to... because there is no framework or attempt to create a framework or atmosphere that would prevent a recurrence of the problems after reunificationYou didn't tell us anything new. The occupation will end only when Turkey is forced to end it. Anything else is nnootttt going to work.
Of course the occupation will only end when Turkish troops leave, what i said wa you can't expect them to just do this unilaterally tomorrow... there has to be a process and talks between the communities to reach this. The fact you are trying to force Turkey to end it without easing security concerns prevents any realistic framework or justification for them to do it.Nobody said they didn't have justified concerns. What it is not justified are their actions. If you have a justified concern that you might get killed in a traffic accident because you had an accident in the past, this doesn't give you the right to exterminate all other drivers.
What actions? Are you talking about the past again? Stop babying around by comparing a traffic accident to the Cyprus problem, that is irrelevant. If you don't want to die in a traffic accident, drive more carefully. There is a method to minimize that risk. The risk of TCs being persecuted after a solution has not even attempted to be minimized.Really? So when this 18% demands land of 37% or 29% they do it for security ah?
Uhh yes? First of all.... if the Turks occupied 18% of the land would that be perfectly fine for you? If so.... then your previous arguments are contradicted and you don't give a crap about human rights. Of course, that is not the case.... and as was mentioned in another post, TC's owned more than 18% of the land itself. I don't know why the Turks occupied exactly 37% but that is not the point anyway.Any security concerns could be dealt in ways that are compatible with democracy and human rights. Performing ethnic cleansing is not the way to solve this problem. Otherwise ethnically cleansing the TCs and sending them to Turkey would also be a valid option for ensuring their security, right?
Look man the problem is the situation right now, the ethnic cleansing has been attempted by both sides. i KNOW THE GC'S ARE STILL DEPRIVED OF THE HUMAN RIGHT TO ENJOY THEIR PROPERTIES, not to mention the missing persons, I am not justifying these past actions, but there was actions on both sides and both sides acted in the barbarian way you speak of so fondly... ethnically cleansing TC's has already been attempted by the GC side, and don't forget there are TC's displaced from the North, and you have to accept that TC's are Cypriots.... your focus on your sides problems only blinds you and you and leaders like you have not and will never be able to find a solution at this rate.You know this is the Cyprus Problem forum. The illegality and the violations of our human problems is THE problem for us. If the solution of the Cyprus problem has nothing to do with the problem of the great majority of Cypriots, then what kind of "solution" are we talking about?
No my friend, that is PART of the Cyprus problem and from the GC perspective.... there are 2 sides to every story and the Cyprus Problem from the TC perspective I would venture is different. It is finding a solution where 2 communities can coexist peacefully, inharmony, without racist and discriminatory barriers. And NO do not start on a tirade about how TC's are the racists because of their occupation. It is because of racism that the whole damn mess started to begin with. Your view of the Cyprus problem is limited to GC's only, and if you can't accept it extends to both sides then the problem cannot be solved.One question: Is abandoning our human and legal rights a prerequisite for this friendship?
I never said it was.... but why would the TC's accept a solution that deprives THEM of their human rights by being treated as second-class citizens in their own country? Everyone has to achieve human rights but this will not be done just by turkey withdrawing and expecting everything to be rosy and perfect, because without a single doubt, the TC's will be discriminated against with this solution in the current climate. If you BUILD FRIENDSHIP AND TRUST, then a single country forming is possible, because TCs would not have to worry about this.They are not treated as second class. They are treated as the ones who support a 40.000 illegal occupation army.
So you basically admit they are treated even below second-class.... nevermind the fact that my friend and most TC's had no part whatsoever in deciding to invade, and im talking about TC's living inthe SOuth btw.... and even the North but I don't know any of them personally. Eitherwaym, you basically just told them that yes, they will be treated like dirt over here.... great way to reassure them.... the definition of reconciliation is lost on you.The problem would have never existed if Cypriots were left alone to decide about their own future, constitution etc in a democratic way. The foreigners have their troops, made our constitution, do whatever they feel like in Cyprus and we have never been allowed to decide anything important for our own island.
You have control now, forget about the British, the Ottomans and every other Empire building nation the Earth was littered with in the past. You have control NOW to try and solve the problem yourself. And if you don't want foreign intervention now, stop asking for it repeatedly because that its what you did and the solution didnt work and now you're blaming the people you asked for help....If I forced on you the way your family should function and your family broke up, wouldn't you blame me?
No... I would blame my family for following your idiotic ways probably.... but whats in the past is in the past, and I'd take measures to direct my own family instead of letting you trample all over them .... not go ask someone else to fix it for me.We are more than ready to take the whole responsibility for our own island. Will they let us take the decisions?
Viewpoint wrote:Piratis I cannot change you becasue you do not want to understand our viewpoint but I will try to answer your barrage of bloodimindness that does nto allow you to see that we are really thinking along the same lines but the vechile we take to get to the end result is different.What part of what I said is "bloody"? The human rights part, the democracy part, the equality without racist discrimination part? What did I say that was "bloody minded"?
Let me take a radical step forward because obviously you have no vision or desire to solve anything.
What if I said to you I agree with you I to want human rights and a return to legal status? so please register this in your brain dont just ignore it.
Who are bloody minded are the ones who use force and are ready to shoot and kill anybody that tried to return to his own home. Thats you, not me.
I to want as refugees to return and get their rights back to their properties.
Ok Viewpoint. In 1960 we made an agreement. If both are to blame then how come what you suggest is punishing the Greek Cypriots only by taking away from them and giving much more to the TCs??
The 1960 agreements did not work with us in them for many reasons, for the last 42 years they have been yours.
What am I suggesting that will take away from you??? the sharing of power?? please tell me. No one wants to punish anyone get that out of your mind, TCs have past that a long time ago but Im not 100% sure about GCs.
Both. One example: In 1960 agreements you had veto powers in several matters, but not a federal state. If you want a federal state, you can give in return the veto. How about that? If you don't agree, then we are left with 1960 agreements which was a compromise to begin with.
Then surely you to are saying that we have to negotiate the best balance for our country? The 1960 agreements didnt work we have to negotiate something new that will be acceptable to both of us.
No, what I am saying is "A solution should be based on human rights and democracy otherwise it is not a solution". What you say is "either you accept what we demand or we continue the illegal occupation".
What Im saying is very clear if you took a few minutes to think about it, we to want what you want but if we are unable to agree a plan then what do we do? We have a very good example before us the Annan plan you didnt want it for many reasons which we all know so we were unable to solve the Cyprus issue. We could also say the GCs say if you do not accept our demands we will keep you isolated.
Where was your logical argument. I am still waiting to hear your logical argument against democracy, against human rights, against the right for people to return to their own homes. Where is it?
My logical arguements imho are that we are 2 equal communites and that we have to accept the realities of our past and the current situation. If we have the desire to reunite under a united Cyprus then we have to negotiate a plan that will incorporate human rights and legality. Its no good just saying lets just go back to 1960 and get rid of the army and let all refugees return this aint gonna happen, we lost that chance a long time ago, the sooner people like Piatis wake up to this fact the sooner we will move anywhere near a solution. It is this bloodimindedness (on both sides) that fuels the current situation. Whats needed now are leaders that can sit down and workout how we get rid of the army, settlers and how refugees can return and how we can live and work together, isnt that what GCs want?
You apparently don't seem to... because there is no framework or attempt to create a framework or atmosphere that would prevent a recurrence of the problems after reunification
Of course the occupation will only end when Turkish troops leave, what i said wa you can't expect them to just do this unilaterally tomorrow... there has to be a process and talks between the communities to reach this. The fact you are trying to force Turkey to end it without easing security concerns prevents any realistic framework or justification for them to do it.
What actions? Are you talking about the past again? Stop babying around by comparing a traffic accident to the Cyprus problem, that is irrelevant. If you don't want to die in a traffic accident, drive more carefully.
There is a method to minimize that risk. The risk of TCs being persecuted after a solution has not even attempted to be minimized.
Uhh yes? First of all.... if the Turks occupied 18% of the land would that be perfectly fine for you?
and as was mentioned in another post, TC's owned more than 18% of the land itself.
Look man the problem is the situation right now, the ethnic cleansing has been attempted by both sides.
No my friend, that is PART of the Cyprus problem and from the GC perspective.... there are 2 sides to every story and the Cyprus Problem from the TC perspective I would venture is different. It is finding a solution where 2 communities can coexist peacefully, inharmony, without racist and discriminatory barriers.
I never said it was.... but why would the TC's accept a solution that deprives THEM of their human rights by being treated as second-class citizens in their own country?
So you basically admit they are treated even below second-class.... nevermind the fact that my friend and most TC's had no part whatsoever in deciding to invade, and im talking about TC's living inthe SOuth btw.... and even the North but I don't know any of them personally. Eitherwaym, you basically just told them that yes, they will be treated like dirt over here.... great way to reassure them.... the definition of reconciliation is lost on you.
You have control now
No... I would blame my family for following your idiotic ways probably
Yes yes and yes.... if you bother trying to come up with a solution. Don't forget when the GC's rejected the Annan plan and Annan kindly requested them to voice what their opposition was, Tassos got all aggressive and refused to hand in in writing what exactly he didn't approve of..... keep in mind Tasso splayed a part in engotiating the Annan plan itself... there is a hidden agenda it appears
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