repulsewarrior wrote:...never bought a cat, never owned one; all the cats i've known befriended me.
Cats are that sort of animal. If you try to approach one and befriend it, they are most likely to have none of it. If you have food, they will all come close, you will befirend some but most will still be averse to your advance to befriend or stroke it. The cat comes to you when you ignore it then it tries to get your attention, if it wants. Cats are bad ass. I really like dogs too. They have very different characters.
Funnily enough, I have befriended few stray cats in Cyprus and they all came to me, The recent one I have befriended lives in the neighbourhood and usually spends time around my apartment building. She basically follows me whenever she sees me and wants to climb all over me. There was another one before that walked with me for about a km.
There are many strays in Cyprus unfortunately and not feeding them does not make them go away. I dissaprove of any abuse and maltreatment of animals.