The only way you wouldn't be a foreigner is if it were Greek dominated.
WRONG! We would be foreigners as the state is called Turkish, dominated by Turks. If the state was Cypriot with no ethnic divide then we wouldn't be foreigners.
Look at the alternative, what if I said to you, Turks can live in Cyprus, but the state is called the Greek Republic of Cyprus, with a flag similar to Greece, wouldn't you then feel like a foreigner? Would you accept this? I actually have more right to say this because Cyprus is dominated by a Greek population, whether you like it or not. Compound that with the fact that you (I presume as you have not mentioned it) wouldn't allow GCs to return home. How the hell do you expect GCs to accept this?
Please explain to me how the TRNC is oppressive?
1) Because it is illegal.
2) Because ethnic cleansing was carried out to establish the state.
3) It stops GCs returning to their homes in a country called the Republic of Cyprus and not the TURKISH Republic. NO PART OF CYPRUS IS TURKISH!
There are other reasons but I think that is enough.
By the way, desperate? Desperate for what?