Well that will be down to us I think, all of us as Cypriots, whatever the actual form of a settlement turns out to be. It will be down to all of us to choose and decide if we want a future where we choose to define ourselves (and what we want) by our differences or by our commonalities. I think that has actually always been down to us.
I believe the environment and the situation we will find ourselves in is what will determine the result. You can't put people in a state that promotes discrimination, separation and rivalry between two sides and then expect a positive outcome.
Here I again disagree. For me, I KNOW the devil I know is a devil. Absolutely without any doubt. Where as I do not know that about the devil I do not know. The devil I do not know may end up being a devil no different to the one I know or it might be even worse that the one I know, but there is also a CHANCE that it will not be as bad a devil as the one I know or even not a devil at all. I personally will always lean towards choosing a chance of 'better' over a certainty of 'continuing bad'.
Yes... I guess it is an risk vs reward situation. If the risk is relatively low and the possible rewards great, then I would agree with you. But I don't think it will be like that for our side.