the problem is in my head, perhaps, but it is still there and acts on my behavior, the same the security issue is in TCs heads but they act on their perceived fears.
Despite what you think, the RoC is what we perceive to be between us and becoming another district of Greece. You do not get this, then you do not understand who you are dealing with. Your irrational view that all GCs want to unite with Greece is so way off that it does not let you see the obvious. Tassos Papadopoulos understood Cypriots when he said "I received a state, I will not hand over a community". His message was directed towards Greece not anyone else. And it is no accident that the worst criticism came from Greek politicians, mostly from the "progressive" left.
As for compensation for properties. There is the market oriented way. An ad hoc stock exchange type of deal where properties will find their market level with no artficial props. Those that want to exchange, sell or rent, can do it that way. "Rent" as opposed to outright title transfer puts the situation on a different basis. The exchange can be electronic and totally anonymous, but restricted to natural persons of Cypriot nationality. Something like Ebay in operation. Overall the south will be the preferred ownership area. regardless of the residence restrictions imposed by BBF. It is ironic that this multidecade conflict has had one tangible result, turned Limassol into the most desirable part of Cyprus.