Pumpernickle I totally agree with you in what you said. A solution will be found here ONLY when ALL sides agree that ALL did their part in this, people learn from their mistakes, kick out their ignorance and be realistic in some things. Otherwise irrespective of how much we want a solution, a solution will not come from God, but from ourselves.
Lysi I also agree with you, I'm also fed up with this situation, but on ther other hand if both sides hold their side of rope really tide and try to pull the "opponent" too, a solution is not viable.