...and thus my reminder, that Individual Rights, their restoration, alone, will not resolve the issue of Justice seen, too much was done as Persons, and as communities, at least for some, must Cypriots return, as Greeks, and as Turks, for there to be a demonstration of our recognition and respect toward each other.
a Cypriot flag must fly higher, National Constituencies otherwise escape their responsibility toward the notions that make us more than Peoples, but a Human race.
...in my mind, it is the displaced that are first on the Agenda, and any 'settlement' as you say requires Justice, for them.
(i understand, from your personal example, how complex it is this issue, it is not a reason to give up, or to be happy with the way things are, i know we must find better in any case.)