The world is a different place to what it is now. Neither side needs to cling to Greece, nor Turkey. At the moment, the north side is scared of cutting mummies apron strings. There is no need to be scared.
One cannot simply have two states, both sides are skint, but one side has a lot of benefits within the EU. You cannot simply keep going on as two states because its causing far too many complications. Take the currency for example, its pathetically ridiculous that there is two currencies on one island. The Euro is a little more strong than the TL. If there is to be one this one that, but two this two that it won't be long before something collapsed.
The age old arguements of the Greeks wish to dominate just doesnt wash anymore. So put a little trust in what somebody sees from the outside, because from where I'm standing I see what needs to be done. Those so stuck in the middle with their blinkered eyes, need to open them. Look at the bigger picture and move on. Stop clinging to past mistakes and take some time to see what I see. It might help you visualise the future.
If the north keeps hanging onto the past, their claptrap minority sob story, they will most certainly be stuck in the past and wont be anything but a backward backwater.....whilst the rest of the world progress.