GreekIslandGirl wrote:Well, I've been a woman for a veeeerryy long time now.
And I would have to say you have made the classic mistake of assuming there's only one type of female - the one who is attracted to a "nice mate". And you presume you are that "nice mate". Although it's true to say there's only one type of male - the one attracted to a fine-bodied young female of reproducing age - the converse is not at all true. Women can go for men for many different reasons. The only reason I can think of that a young woman would be attracted to a much older man is if he was likely to drop dead soon and leave her well provided so that she can find a younger mate with whom to raise kids. Harsh but true.
Survival of the fittest ...
(Maybe she is exceptional. Who knows. You haven't mentioned any of her other attributes. Just that she's a "bombshell".
Well, bombshells are notorious for ..... going OFF!
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Perhaps I have omitted to mention that my LF has a 13 year old daughter from a previous relationship, she adores her and takes extremely good care of her.She does not wish to have children, and of course neither do I.
What she wants is a decent companion with whom she can spend some years with, no violence either verbal or physical, kindness, care and respect. Remember how I met her, I think I wrote about it some years back.
On the night that I visited the bar she worked at in Limassol, just an ordinary mbiraria,having "rescued" her after losing her purse the day before, which was later found, she became rather impressed by the fact that I came to her assistance.
On having a bottle of wine at the bar, an old geezer, her boss, reprimanded her rather rudly for spending so much time talking to me. That was not a bar where ladies are offered for "sale" just a bar.
He was so rude to her and his manner annoyed me. Get your handbag I told her, right now !
She looked astounded. Dont worry I told her. I have a place almost opposite, you come and stay, you have nothing to worry about me, Im a perfect gentleman.
She did, on July 4th, Independence day, 2010, the rest followed...
Will I marry her, well maybe I already have, maybe ....