by miltiades » Thu Jun 06, 2013 8:14 am
Three or four days later I decided to call the lady. She answered the phone instantly, sounding happy and rather excited, before I could get a word in she told me in a girlish voice that her dad had apologized to her and that he wanted to see me and offer his apologies face to face.
It was late afternoon, early evening when I made my way to her house, nervous and anxious, wondering what the old man would say to me.
She was waiting at the door, happy to see me, just as I was.She had these sparkling blue eyes and barely looked her age, 17 at the time.She led me into the house and father was in the kitchen brewing a pot of tea.
Dad, John is here she called out. He turned to me, a wry smile on his stern looking face, offered me his hand and in a whisper barely audible he said, Sorry son, you see my older son served in Cyprus in 1957-58,.
Oh I said, part of the occupying force no doubt.The man was not amused.
Care for a drink and a chat he said, just the two of us in the pub across the road.I looked at the lady and she nodded her approval.
We walked into the pub without saying a word to each other, sat in a corner and he asked what drink I would like.
A lager I said, he stared at me and said, you are not only a bloody terrorist but a bloody queer too, but he smiled as he said that, so I nodded with a smile. He explained that real men drunk bitter.
In those days, lagers were considered unsuitable for ...real men, they were not refrigerated, straight out of the case.
Sat down, offered me a cigarette and begun to explain his antipathy towards EOKA, asked of my opinion and I responded by saying that my older brother had served in the struggle for liberation and I had joined the youth movement, ANE.
I interrupted him when he tried to interrupt me asking him if he himself would have joined a struggle had Germany won the war and occupied Britain, he did replied but he listened attentively as I elaborated further and put my case across.
I reminded him that Cyprus was occupied by Britain and that the Cypriot people had every right to demand and fight for their independence. He asked if I or my brother had ever fired at a British soldier, I replied that I was far to young at the time and that my older brother had seen action.
We talked for hours until the lady showed up looking rather anxious but immediately happy to see that her dad had adopted a "friendly" approach towards me and was deep in conversation.Barely known her, about a week, yet she adopted a protective stance towards me,I liked her a lot, had not even gone further than a kiss and a cuddle yet, looking at her eyes I was mesmerized.Sat for a little longer until almost "last orders". Shook hands with the old boy, a warm firm handshake from him, rather limb from me.Said my goodbyes to the lady, and made my way home but before agreeing to meet at the Locarno, our local dance hall in...St. reaham !!
the next evening.
Time went on, my relationship with the lady had blossomed into a wonderful loving affair and her old man became warmer and warmer towards me, even asking me if I planned to marry his daughter, of course I responded, I love your daughter and she loves me, we shall get married when we are 21 years old, and we did, a marriage that lasted almost half a century, but before that I had to introduce her to my beloved Cyprus, and I did so in 1966,taking in Greece and the Greek islands, a trip lasting 3 months, just 3 years after meeting her....
To continue .....