kuzeyboy, you are very right in what you say.
But I ask you: If we become friends and trust each other and if this hate is stopped, then what excuse would there be for keeping 200.000 people out of their homes? What excuse would there be for the gross violations of human rights? If instead of discriminating people based on their race, we see everybody as equal human beings citizens of this country, what would be the excuse for those that insist on separation?
The unfortunate reality is that hate serves the aims of some people. The ones that want partition and the separation of people based on their race. This is why those people spread hate and they produce lame excuses as to why this hate can not be stopped and why Cyprus can not be a united country with full respect to the human and democratic rights of all of its citizens without racial discriminations.
If love and friendship is what served the interests of everybody then be sure that love and friendship is what we would have (take the example of France and Germany). However don't expect love, trust and friendship, when the maintenance of mistrust and hate is what serves the interests of some.