Well it seemed for a while there was an acceptance that the communites should be recogniesd as having more rights that a minority and less than total and absoloute rights of a people? Or did I imagine that?
Ok, lets start from the basics. What is a "right"? In these forums we are discussing about 2 kind of rights: Human rights, and legal rights. Many times these two kinds of rights overlap, but not always.
For example as a Cypriot I have the right of free education including university level education. I don't think the right of free university level education is a human right though, right?
Minority rights are human rights. Nobody can be denied his human rights.
Turkish Cypriots are a minority, but that doesn't mean they can not have any other legal rights. When/if we agree for a solution, the constitution will define these other extra rights, which will include the use of Turkish language as official Cyprus language etc. The important thing is that such additional rights do not contradict with any human rights and therefore they are perfectly legal, and as good as any other rights.
Nobody wants to take away any right from you. And actually I believe that human rights can not clash. In the rare case that they do (since I know you will argue that this is the case) then the most basic human rights should take precedence. For example if I am dying and a helicopter needs to land near my house at 3am, it should be done, because my human right of life is more important that your right of "quietness at night".
The difference between human rights and legal rights in our discussion is that human rights are not negotiable. Everybody should have the 100% of his/hers human rights. The additional legal rights will be given, as long as they do not clash with more basic human rights.
For example the legal right of having Turkish as an official language is perfectly ok, because nobody has a human right of "not listening to Turkish" or anything like that.
Yet if a legal right is given that the TC state will be 29% and GCs that will be able to return will be only 20%, this is not ok, because it clashes with several basic human rights, like the right of ownership, or the right of free settlement.
If we agree for TCs to have such kind of rights, then we are actually talking about a compromise from our side.
We can do
some such compromises, but when we do them then you should at least acknowledge that they are compromises, and respond with some compromises as well.