BirKibrisli wrote:bill cobbett wrote:BirKibrisli wrote:bill cobbett wrote:BirKibrisli wrote:VP and Bananiot,you are wasting your time and energy ,my friends....These people will never understand...They never had to sleep with a shotgun under their beds when they were children...They never knew the fear of death some of us was subjected to growing up in Cyprus....They were never humiliated in long queues at checkpoints when they wanted to visit their relatives in another part of the island...They never had loved ones disappear by busloads,from hospital beds,from their villages....I am not saying terrible things did not happen to individual GCs,but these posters here never had personal experience of it...You talk about mistrust and personal security,they talk about higher living standards,EU aquies,UN resolutions etc...They have never faced extinction as a community or as a nation...They have no idea where you are coming from....That is why there will never be a solution in our lifetime....I admire your tenacity,and wish I had your patience to deal with these blind people...As I used to say, "there is no one as blind as those who refuse to see"....
Bir my dear, regrettably have to say that it is pretty clear to me, that you in common with practically everyone of the Older Generations are a majority part of the problem.
This Shotgun under the Bed mentality, this over-weight and untrusting baggage allowance from the past being carried in to the present and future is no way forward.
Now, if you'll excuse me ... will go and see how to give the younger generation occupying the Buffer Zone of the Mind a little help.
Hi there,Bill...We "older generation" are where we are and feel like we do because of certain events that happened in our little country...While you safely grew up in a loving,stimulating,and supporting environment some of us went to bed each night not sure if we would see the light of day....You can try to dismiss it,minimise it,or make it irrelevant ,but this is etched in our people's collective consciousness...That is why there is so much bitterness and mistrust between our peoples...Peersonally,I have met GCs via this forum I would trust with my life...I consider them my lifelong brothers...But that does not change the fact that NOTHING has been done over so many wasted years to promote understanding,respect and trust in Cyprus...What the younger geneartion is doing is pointless ideological wanking...It will change nothing,will not contribute to a solution one iota...We must face our bloody past,come to terms with it,so we can move forward with confidence...I have admiration for those who are truly trying to promote mutual trust,understanding and respect...These copy cat occupiers are not amongst them...I still wish them and you good luck...You need it...
Pollox Bir... it's the ideas of the young that often change things.
Whilst you were firmly grasping your shot-gun, quite happy to take shots at anyone you didn't like the look of, some of us were on the streets of the Diaspora, some of us agitated and occupied and protested, had many a cold night on occupations ... and those were times when it weren't terribly bright to take a stand against established ways... so please pack it in with your ugly and very condescending drivel about the comforts of the Diasopra.
Further, it was the young who made significant contributions in ending the war in Vietnam, took to the streets to condemn Apartheid in SA, marched and organised in East London to push back the Fascist Nationalists and support to Minorities. The young have always shaped the future.
Yesterday's Counter-Culture so often becomes Today's Culture.
So please get with the times.
Bill,
When I was sleeping with a shotgun under my bed at age 7-8 you were probably not born yet...When you were born you probably slept with your favourite toy,safe in the knowledge that you lived in a civilised country where people's human rights were respected..So cut the crap...You can fool yourself that you can sweep the past under a carpet,and put your faith in those who have no idea what really happened in Cyprus...But it will not help us achieve the solution you say you desire...
Keep your head in the sand,mate...It is your head but GC state propaganda sand...I know you guys mean well,but you are totally deluded...You are only contributing to the problem...If you could only see that...
Never had a favourite toy mate, parents couldn't afford toys and cert couldn't afford to shove a shotgun under the bed , and believe you me '50s and '60s London wasn't a brill place to expect the rights of CYs or any other minority to have been respected. A lot of people on CF will know what is meant by that.
No mate, your views are the problem... you are the ones who don't like the idea of a few young CYs meeting up in the Buffer Zone and making new friendships and challenging the old ways, you Bir and your mate VP are the ones who would rather the young CYs didn't have the chance to shape the future, you are the ones who cling on to the past and want so desperately to take it in to the future and force it on the young cos the past is what defines so much about you, so much so that you ain't prepared to cut the young a little slack.
In short Bir and VP, and it is with regret that this is said but it is how you are coming across so it has to be said, you are the ones who would rather young CYs didn't trust the other CY and took shotguns to beds. You would both have the younger generation be an extension of the divided past.