ZoC wrote:Filitsa wrote:Sotos wrote:We have idiots that do such things but definitely it is not "all men" like that ... far from it. If it seems to you that ALL men are like that then I bet the reason is because you are dressed like a cheap slut and you attract all the idiots
Hypothetical situation, Sotos: Your "little" girl, the love of your life, comes home battered and bruised, announcing hysterically that she's been raped (God forbid). Will you respond, "the reason is because you are dressed like a cheap slut and you attract all the idiots"?
hypothetical situation. my neighbour- gets burgled and the police tell him he really out to consider shutting his back entrance in future, to deter opportunists from having a go. "oh what? is that the reason i got burgled?" he says, "not because there are vile burglars around?"
Not-so-hypothetical situation:
"Oh what? Is that the reason I must wear a burqa, Mommy," she asks, "because there are vile men around?"
"Yes, my dear. You see, until men are held accountable for their hostile behavior, we women will always be to blame. Do you know what scapegoat means, dear? How about the term 'blaming the victim'?"