If a solution that we wanted was offered to us like the AP we would say yes and have proven this, its the GCs that have shown no goodwill.
So the real question is do the GCs really wants a solution when they have what they want.
As to arguing with my wife it really depends on whos wrong but for the record we very rarely argue.
i think the g/c do want a solution but not the ap plan that was so lopsided.