Bananiot, I hope you realize that you change/avoid the subject of my objection to what you said in your initial post.
Let me make it clear, and try not to avoid it this time:
Here is what you said that I do not agree:
This brings me to another point with a slight relevance. When Salih was tragically murdered by a psychopath in Limassol 3 weeks ago, Volkan and other nationalist circles in the north, took the opportunity to remind the TC's of the GC barbarity. On the other hand, when a GC elderly woman was robbed and murdered by a settler in Karpasia, a few years ago, in unison, the whole GC media, condemned this and sited it as yet another example of turkish barbarism. The same was repeated in the cases of Tasos Isaac and Solomou.
Why I'm I remembering all these? Just to show that much mistrust exists that always finds a way to explode things right out of proportion. In the case of Salih, only the well known nationalists of the TC community tried to capitalise on a tragic incident. The rest of the TC community has shown commentable maturity. We can do with such maturity in the south.
Where I strongly object is your claim is that in the north they are very mature, and we are not.
To prove this you use the cases of Salim, old lady, Isaak-Solomou. If the proofs that you present are shown false, this means that what you are trying to prove is not proved.
I don't know the case of old lady so I can't comment on that. But the cases of Isaak and Solomou are not similar to the case of Salim, and therefore they do not support your point.
Therefore you can either:
1)Admit that your claim that in north are more mature is false.
or
2)Admit that the examples you gave (Isaak-Solomou) were the wrong ones.
I remember when that TC woman was given some problems in the airport by some policeman. Wasn't that blown out of proportions in the TC newspapers?