BirKibrisli wrote:Kikapu...thank you for taking the time to reply to my post...I am really not in the mood to go over all the issues you've raised, as we have discussed them here ad infinitum...My point is that Cyprus issue is too complex to be reduced to any one simple point...Even if that point is as noble as your democracy and human rights arguments...
Hi Bir,
The ONLY reason why I keep bringing up Democracy and Human Rights all the time, it is because the the RoC is in the EU and these principles will need to be included along with the rest of the EU Principles. These are not just my wishes only, but the basic requirements by the EU. Therefore, we need to find a solution taking these factors into an account, which some of our TCs friends on the forum do not like and instead want to label it as a "GC Democracy" and those who go along with the EU Principles are all GC sympathisers and GC "mouthpieces". If that was the case, then the whole west is a GC sympathisers. These accusers are just afraid that they are going to have to return their "spoils of war", that's all. I have asked the question before to these TCs who make these annoying arguments all the time to go and get an approval from the EU as to whether they can have a settlement without violating the EU's principles instead of talking rubbish. They have not done so. I wonder why.? The truth is, the north does not want a settlement based on the EU Principles. Well, they have a problem in that case, and their problem is not with the GCs over these EU Principles, but with the EU itself.
BirKibrisli wrote:People and communities have collective consciouness which goes beyond any logical or legal or even fair considerations...The worst approach one can take to a victim of trauma is disbelief and suspicion...The second worst approach is to blame them for bringing the victimisation onto themselves...The third worst thing is to accuse them of gaining something at the expense of those they consider their oppressors...And the cardinal mistake is to refuse to show and empathy and compassion....Our GC cousins of the fanatial/nationalist perusation are doing all this and more...Knowing well the effect it is having on the TCs and on the negotiations to find a solution...
This applies to ALL the communities in Cyprus. There has been enough destruction and hardship placed on them from each other as well as from foreign forces. This is nothing new and people move on, with scars and all. In comparison to what happened to people from other conflicts in the world in the last 100 years, ours will barely make it to the long lists of conflicts. Shit happens in life but people move on and so does life, or else being stuck in the past of any conflict only overshadows their future. It's time to move on, as I have done personally as well as my immediate family, despite our loses in human cost as well as financial.
BirKibrisli wrote:AS the time drags on the status quo,which is effectively Partition,becomes more and more entrenched...That is what I mean by these fanatics b eing the real Partitionists...If you know for sure that a certain actions will result in stalemate,and if the stalemate will result in Partition,and you refuse to change course,you are a partitionist...In effect and in reality...
Well, the GCs cannot change the EU Principles to reach a settlement just to please the TCs, even if they wanted. How can they go against the EU Principles when the RoC is part of a 27 EU member states with those very same principles, and the bigger question I needs to ask is, why would or should they.? How does one go back to a undemocratic and human rights violations from a Democratic state as they have now.? Democracy and Human Rights are not perfect and the world constantly is changing to improve on these principles, so how can any society in the west can be asked to go backwards in Democracy and Human Rights and not forward.?It is totally unnatural to do so and the EU is not about to go backwards either.
Having said the above, the TCs on the other hand are willing to go backwards, hence their insistence that Democracy and Human Rights should be violated in order to reach a settlement. For what it's worth, the TCs do claim to have a Democracy in the north, but willing to forgo that for a undemocratic and Human Rights violations. But of course, these violations are not meant to be for themselves, but on the GCs and other communities, so in effect, the TCs do not respect Democracy and Human Rights and are willing to drop is at a moments notice in violating these principles if they can benefit from undemocratic and Human Rights placed on others. The whole thing is upside down if you ask me.
Therefore, if the GCs refusal to accept having to forgo their Democratic and Human Rights in order to reach a settlement and in return they are then labelled as being "Partitionists", then the same can be said on the TCs who also refuse to have a settlement unless these principles are violated. They too then become "Partitionist". The question is, which one is right and which one is wrong in making such demands and who are the ones that are likely to lose in the long run and which are not. Despite the EU's shortcomings, it is the ONLY game in town and the GCs and the RoC are already in it, and despite the genuine TCs are also in it, the "trnc" (in the unlikely event of an permanent partition) and Turkey will never become part of it until they too start looking forward with Democracy and Human Rights and not backwards the 16th century. But you have told us many times, and rightfully so, that the TCs do not control their own destiny, but it is that Turkey which controls their destiny, so there isn't anything the GCs can do for the TCs if Turkey won't allow it. This needs to change first before there can ever be a settlement in Cyprus by the Cypriots themselves. Once the Turkey's interests equation is taken out of the Cyprus settlements, I believe Cypriots themselves can live under the EU Principles.
BirKibrisli wrote:If you do not see my logic than we are talking about chalk and cheese...You are not helping the situation,because you are insisting on buttering their bread,giving them reason to think they might be right in their choice of actions....Cyprob will never be solved as long as our GC cousins refuse to accept the lions share of the blame for what has happened...And start showing some undeerstanding,empathy and compassion for the TC plight...If you want to help find a solution you should start telling them that...
It must go without saying that ALL Cypriots should show empathy and understand to each others communities, and they will once the dust settles, but this in not likely to happen on a mass level as you would like to see, not while the present divide continues to be and injustices committed are the norm and not the exception.
As I've said above, the whole purpose the RoC being in the EU is to have the EU Principles apply in Cyprus. These EU Principles are not my creations. I ONLY agree with them, just because having lived under these principles most of my life, just as you have as well as large portion of Cypriots, it is very natural to accept them, but it appears that not everyone does, and that is OK, but they cannot hold the rest of Cypriots moving forward. 2004 has changed everything and no longer can anything like the Annan Plan can be introduced in Cyprus again. The problem is, the north/Turkey have not faced reality yet. Lets not blame the system of Democracy and Human Rights, but instead lets bring everybody into it in Cyprus. That is what I'm doing. It is not for the GCs and not for the TCs. It is for myself. This is my contribution to bettering Cyprus and ALL Cypriots. All they have to do, is just accept it. The GCs for the most part have and I'm sure most TCs have also. It is the TC leadership and the Fascists who have not along with Turkey. In time, they will not have a choice. Time is not on their side, as we are witnessing the events in the Arab world taking place. If there's more you want me to do, I'll be happy to do so if it's to help the TCs become part of Cyprus with the EU principles for a better life and future for them and their children, but please do not ask me to do anything that would mean less than the above basic principles shared by the rest of the EU member states..