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[WickedSalsero]

I have a lot of women friends, which are just that. Yes sometimes we have sex , but it is only to deepen our wonderful friendship.

[stuff]

I have a lot of women friends, which are just that. Yes sometimes we have sex , but it is only to deepen our wonderful friendship.

ı see...

[dms007]

how deep is that??

[Zaynah]

WickedSalsero wrote:

I have a lot of women friends, which are just that. Yes sometimes we have sex , but it is only to deepen our wonderful friendship

Wow!..this must be new philosophy....because i have never heard of
a man having sex with a female "friend" ...sooo in order to strengthen
their "friendship" bond???...
...i wonder what text this is written in????....Leo Buscalia never taught me any of this in any literature text i have read..

i really must tell to you this sounds more like what is known as
a "BOOTY CALL"..between a guy and a girl who make no commitment..
to each other whatsoever ..besides the sole purpose of only having sex!!
.......................... "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS"...........................

yes!!.. i believe this is your definiton of what a friendship should be between a man and a woman......you have not a clue of a platonic relationship between a man and a woman!!...not an ounce of clue??
only thinking below the belt that holds your trousers up.......how typical

[nasos007]

men and women cannot become friends without the sex thing getting in the way.
if men become friends with women it's more likely that they are too in touch with their feminine side or that the women are not that attractive.

Disclaimer:
Please be aware that these are my opinions this very early cold winters day. Don't get your knickers in a twist its only an opinion.
As a famous F1 driver once said: "Opinions are like *rseholes, everyone has one".

[dms007]

i think that there are a very few people who have friends of the opposite sex that they have slept with.
most of the men and women dont do that.

nobody likes to sleep with their friends, it does not help strengthning the bond.
when they realise what they have done they either try to keep away from each other or they get together to start a relationship.

if men become friends with women it's more likely that they are too in touch with their feminine side or that the women are not that attractive

that is not true, appearances does not matter for friendship.
if looks matter then it is not friendship and that sort of friendship would fade away quickly because when someone does not get what he or she wants then they are not going to hang around.

sometimes it happens that the friendship turns to love after they get to each other very well.
but the important thing to realise was that when they started as friends they would have have given it a thought.


so finally to conclude i think there are boundaries between friendship and love and sex.
the boundary between friendship and sex is huge.
maybe a few cats jumped the wall

[stuff]

from my part,its very simple .we can all be friends if we get on well.ı am pretty ,ı have very handsome boyfriends.and we are still just friends. ı have known some of my friends(boy ones:))for years.they sometimes need a shoulder to cry on.and ı am up for it anytime they want.ı dont look at their gender first!mentalıty is important here...ı guess..and we are not animals THİNK.

[Zaynah]

dms007 wrote:

i think there are boundaries between friendship and love and sex.
the boundary between friendship and sex is huge.

i must agree with dms007....thank you!!!..very well said..

there must be boundaries between men and women.....
you cannot sleep with every female or male friend you have and meet..
this is not friendship...but a lust affair of casual sex!!

people do not go around sleeping with their friends unless they want something more with this person...relationship wise!

...and true!!.. appearances have nothing to do with friendship...it is the person's personality and likes that click in friendship..
if appereances are most important for a good friendship..then the person who has this mentality is very shallow with poor character.

...and regards to you too Disclaimer: nasos007
cause your thinking is very clouded.....
what i think..well.....i am thinking you need to adjust your jock strap..
because apparently.. it's way too tight!!!..

[dms007]

jocks dont come with straps, only brassieres do.

[nasos007]

...and regards to you too Disclaimer: nasos007
cause your thinking is very clouded.....
what i think..well.....i am thinking you need to adjust your jock strap..
because apparently.. it's way too tight!!!..

Apoplogies Zaynah. Let me just make it clear that when i mentioned people getting their 'knickers in a twist', i didn't intend it to be for women only - but used as a general expression for all.

you are right to point that out. its a good thing i am not a lawyer.
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