Actually, no, this thread ain't closed. I want to investigate this further.......
georgios100 wrote:1. Cyprus and it's citizens are a unique society. Our way of life is given, that's the way we like it, don't want to change a single thing. Immigrants settling here MUST respect the Cypriot life style & customs as is. Just play along or leave, period.
So, there you have it folks, Cypriots (according to georgios100) don't want to change a single thing! Maybe in your head georgios100, but if you think a little bit about history you'll realise that you are fantasizing. Cypriot culture has been in constant evolution since man first set foot on the island - are you going to tell me that nothing has changed since Khirokitian times? It's constantly changing, whether it is due to full scale invasion, colonial rule and suppression, internet availability, TV, and also the fact Cypriots travel and live elsewhere and bring back different habits and customs. Do you really think Cypriot culture is the same for your generation as for your grandfathers? I don't think so..... And now that Cyprus is in the EU you have opened yourself up to further influence and change - you'd better get used to it - because the next generation are going to be aware of what is going on elsewhere, and want a piece of that action. Instead of kids playing outdoors all the time, the boys play-shooting each other with sticks and rat-a-tat sounds, they are sitting indoors and shooting each other on playstations, etc (same as elsewhere around the globe) and will be influenced by what they see in these games and elsewhere on the internet - the world is changing fast, and Cyprus will change (in its own way) too. Most Cypriot kids these days fluently speak English - even a generation or two ago this would not have been the norm.
What I realise is that there is a particularly anti-British feeling for some Cypriots - probably due to our colonialist past and the mess that resulted in the Turkish invasion, but Cypriots need to realise that a Brit settling in Cyprus as a free, individual EU citizen is not looking to be an imperialist!!!!! As Robin Hood said he couldn't imagine anything worse than Cyprus being a replica UK but with sunshine! However, as I have outlined, and Robin Hood has also added his thoughts on this too, Brits have their own peculiarities - a need to constantly examine and criticise, to 'moan' if that brings about improvement, and we do this all the time in the UK. The example Robin Hood gave of the sewage system, a simple solution to an issue that some people might not particularly like, coming from outside, in this case a Brit, is a perfectly reasonable. The anti-Brit stance of some Cypriots may be - if you don't like it leave, but if Brits, who are perfectly entitled these days to live in Cyprus, decide to do something about it, and the younger and more affluent generation of Cypriots realise that they too don't have to place used toilet paper in bins and then dispose of it, then you can guarantee in a generation this peculiarly Cypriot habit will change. Been to France recently? Compare the toilet experience there with how it was thirty years ago - the hole in the floor. These days the sitdown experience is the norm - do you think they conjured up that idea themselves? No, they borrowed it from elsewhere, and so this particular part of French culture changed too......
I'm realising now that this thread is showing that the issue is not with 'moaning' Brits (after all, we've admitted we're moaners, complainers - I don't need GR!'s genius 'research' - The Sun - come on GR!, you can do better than that
- to tell me that! - and we've even given some reasons why we are 'moaners') but it is with sensitive Cypriots......and I guess the reasons for this are our entwined histories.
Hey, get the message guys, change can be good! Individual Brits emigrating to Cyprus will not and cannot impose change on you, but you will voluntarily succumb to ideas, habits, customs (the MacDonalds experience
) from outside, not necessarily from Brits. The more likely threat to your culture is from globalisation and legislation from that organisation you were so keen to join, the EU!
Oh, and by the way georgios100, I agree with the second part of your quoted text.......