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Postby Talisker » Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:14 pm

B25 wrote:Good post Talkisker, but unfortunately I think you have missed an very important point.

Criticism is acceptable, Positive critisism even better, BUT, the critisism dished out by the Brits here goes somethig along the lines of;

Balh blah blah, and you'll still be riding donkeys, Blah ......, Corrupted bastards, blah........ Racists pigs, Blah .......... meson/nepotism etc etc.

its not so much the critisism, but the attached insults that go with them that causes the return fire. You read them and see what I mean.

yes the incoming people who may know better, also think they are above the average Cypriot and hence demand to be listen to. The Cypriot creature is a proud one and does not stand for such attitudes and this is where is all starts.

as you have also pointed out, the British have history and may not always be the best ones to dish it out.

thats my take.

I agree that derogatory comments about Cypriots (as a nation) are unacceptable as I also don't like to see references to 'scumbag' Brits, 'money-grabbing' Brits, etc. Yes, if someone has a bone to pick with an individual or specific group then spell it out, but don't tar a whole nation with the same brush........
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Postby Get Real! » Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:32 pm

Talisker’s three page moan about Brits that don’t moan proves that moaning is an effective tool for proving the absence of moaning! :?
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Postby Talisker » Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:50 pm

Robin Hood wrote:Talisker,

A very accurate and well reasoned argument but, you are peeing into the wind with those on this Forum! I have Cypriot friends with whom I have had this discussion and in the main they agree with your observations and very logical assessment of the Cypriot attitude.

This, like many threads that preceded it will no doubt be destroyed by the Forum Rottweiler’s. What could be an interesting exchange of views from both sides of the fence will deteriorate into a mud slinging match with the interfering Brits attacked from all sides because they dare to express an opinion. You may have noticed particularly on this site and amongst the younger generation of Cypriots, that hatred of any opinion expressed by foreigners, is a major part of the Cypriot psyche.

Cypriots do not seem to accept that virtually all the Brits that came to live here, came because they were fed up with seeing their own country going down the pan because ‘foreigners’ lowered the quality of life and a standard of living, that took generations to create. We left behind a country which has no-go areas and areas in which there are no 'English'. We came here with most of our wealth, which in turn made many Cypriots wealthy. Almost every Brit that lives in Cyprus, is an asset to the country. What would happen to the Cypriot economy if the Brits all quit and went elsewhere?

There are approximately 60,000 Brits actually living here full time. The vast majority of these being pensioners who each month, bring a substantial sum of money into Cyprus to live on. Unlike the overgenerous benefits in the UK, there is virtually no welfare state support for foreigners in Cyprus!

The Brits income that arrives every month from the UK (or wherever) is all money flowing into the Cyprus coffers. Assume the ridiculous that all Brits are married couples living on a fairly low income of a thousand euro’s a month per couple? So, that’s 30,000 couples bringing in a total of €30m every month as a minimum. There will be many bringing into the country many times that monthly figure. So having contributed a minimum of €360m a year to the Cyprus economy, I think we deserve an opinion. This Island has been my home for twenty years and it is home to me as much as it is to Cypriot nationals and what happens here, that can adversely affect the Island, is also something that is important to me.

As you say, Brits do have a habit of moaning but it is not because we think we are better than others but because we can see similar warning signs of events that dragged our country down, happening also in Cyprus. Maybe not the same events but, when you see what national apathy to an established system can do to a country/people, then you know what to look for. It is like a cancer that grows almost undetected until it is all consuming and the chance has gone to do anything about it. General apathy shown by Cypriots over many things such as poor driving standards, the legal system, title deeds, corruption, public service abuse, greed, and bureaucratic incompetence, will eventually come home to roost when it will affect Cypriots directly and not just the foreigners.

Cypriots, like Arabs, have a very long memory and are never prepared to let the past go. Hence, no matter how sound and well informed an argument you can present Cypriots will not listen, they see it merely as interference from ‘outside’.

You put forward an interesting financial case for the legitimacy of the voice of Brits living in Cyprus, but I don't agree with it for the very reasons you explain elsewhere in your post. You bemoan the changes that have occurred in the UK in recent decades due to mass immigration, etc, and yet argue that Brits in Cyprus should be heard specifically because of their numbers and financial input. Yes, they should be heard, but should they have an unalienable right to enforce change in Cypriot customs, laws, etc - emphatically 'no' - this must happen through the normal processes of democratic government and legislation, and at the more local level through discussion and negotiation with neighbours, local councils, muhktars, etc.

I find it sad that you group Cypriots together (even on this forum) as being xenophobic - as indicated by your statements highlighted above in red. I really think this brings about an 'us and them' situation. My experience is that there is no united anti-foreigner view from Cypriots, there are shades of grey to all of this, and most Cypriots have their individual views. But maybe there is a general antipathy towards Brits because of the entwined histories I mentioned in my original post, which again will influence some more than others......
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Postby georgios100 » Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:13 pm

Just a few points to make here.

1. Cyprus and it's citizens are a unique society. Our way of life is given, that's the way we like it, don't want to change a single thing. Immigrants settling here MUST respect the Cypriot life style & customs as is. Just play along or leave, period.

2. Personally, I only want the British military presence to clear off the island. The British civilians living of vacationing here are welcome to stay & enjoy what Cyprus has to offer. Same goes for the Russians & others.

3. "Moaning" is always going to be there... only natural to complain but, of course, in vein.

Many Canadians settle or retire in the Dominican Republic, the preferred destination in the Caribbean. Warm weather year round, friendly locals, affordable living etc similar to the Cyprus conditions. Canadians moan there too, just as the Brits moan in Cyprus, but in vein. The Dominicans love their life style and stick to it. Rich or poor, no matter. Foreigners that moved there have adjusted to the local life style or left, period.

Conclusion = Foreigners, get with the program or leave our island.
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Postby Cap » Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:47 pm

Great and fair arguments by all. The trick is to find the middle ground.

Just my opinion. But I think AngloSaxon settlers are an asset to any country. they are brilliant in creating ideal grassroot foundations that transform into great civilizations. (Canada, Australia, US, old South Africa, old Rhodesia).
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Postby Robin Hood » Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:42 pm

Talisker,

As you expressed in your original post, the quite often heard retort by some Cypriots to an opinion expressed by a foreigner is, the Cypriot ‘.... telling them to 'go home if you don't like it', etc, etc. I have also heard the same reply by Brits regarding foreigners in the UK when they want to impose some cultural aspect of their lives upon the ethnic population. But I don’t think the British do want to change the culture of the Island, in fact quite the opposite. I know as far as I am concerned I see things which frustrate Brits and Cypriots alike and would very much like to try and improve/enhance aspects of every day life, not try and make Cyprus... England with sunshine! Heaven forbid.

If you contribute to an organisation then you are entitled to a say in the way things are run. As a member of the EU, Cyprus has a say in what goes on in Europe and in some cases even has a veto. The countrys say is not based entirely on either the amount it contributes or the size of the population. With a population of 800,000 Cyprus gets six seats and the UK gets 72 seats. The population of the UK at 60+m and if awarded on the size of the population would get over 450 seats based on the 6 awarded to Cyprus. So, even a small contribution entitles the contributor to an opinion and not necessarily in proportion to their contribution. It is only in a dictatorship that any one person or section of society has an unarguable right to enforce anything. In a democracy it is normally a simple majority that makes that decision.

You miss one important aspect of ‘normal democratic government’ that being respect for the law and its implementation. Cyprus is a member of the EU and as such has an obligation to uphold the rules and regulations of that establishment. Therefore at the top of the pecking order are the laws and regulations laid down and agreed by all members of the EU and these should take president over national law and/or local custom and practice, unless a derogation is agreed. From recent comments in the local press regarding Customer Rights in Cyprus, this is obviously not so. If you want to be a member of a club and want to be taken seriously then you abide by the regulations and that is often the source of ‘moans’ from the Brits that Cypriots frequently play by their own set of rules.

The Cypriots had a military event involving the ethnic groups on the Island and the eventual intervention of Turkey as one of the guarantee powers in 1974; the British had a military event with Germany in 1939-1945; the Arabs have had numerous military events over the last two thousand years or even longer with the Jews. The Arabs and the Israelis are still at one another’s throats! The GC’s and TC’s are still at one another’s throats. The British and the Germans have settled their differences and are now buddies in a democratic Europe. So, I don’t think it is xenophobic to make an assessment on the general characteristics of a people based on actual scenarios. You do not forget the past but you do have to leave it behind if, as a nation, you want to progress.

You have only to look at some of the replies that are posted here by some of the members of this forum to see where the xenophobia is deeply routed to produce the ‘them and us’ scenario. The anti foreigner view in Cyprus is endemic, I know because I talk to Cypriot friends and whilst they are very pleasant to me and my wife, they admit it. It is a simple fact of life, I know that and accept that I cannot change that opinion, although I have managed to convert some very anti-British Cypriots into, shall we say, more friendly Cypriots.

When you separate the Brits as a people from The British as a colonial power, the two are very different. We are often condemned as a race for the injustices of our Government over several centuries as a major colonial power. That would be like me blaming the Cypriots for all the wrongs of EOKA, who to the Cypriots were quite understandably regarded as freedom fighters as we regarded our soldiers as defenders of the Crown. Right or wrong depends upon which side of the line you are/were standing. But it was all in the past and it best for all that the slate is wiped clean but we all have to remember the mistakes of the past so that they do not happen again.

NO! I do not want this Island to be little Britain and change its culture. NO! I do not want to enforce either my beliefs or culture on others. But, do I want to see the quality of life improve for all those that regard Cyprus as their home?; then the answer has to be YES and if I can use my life experiences over the last few decades to the benefit of this Island then I would be happy to do so.
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Postby Oracle » Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:59 pm

Robin Hood wrote: But, do I want to see the quality of life improve for all those that regard Cyprus as their home?; then the answer has to be YES


So, the "quality of life" in Cyprus is below, or worse than, that in the UK? Can you elucidate?
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Postby Talisker » Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:02 pm

Robin Hood wrote:Talisker,

As you expressed in your original post, the quite often heard retort by some Cypriots to an opinion expressed by a foreigner is, the Cypriot ‘.... telling them to 'go home if you don't like it', etc, etc. I have also heard the same reply by Brits regarding foreigners in the UK when they want to impose some cultural aspect of their lives upon the ethnic population. But I don’t think the British do want to change the culture of the Island, in fact quite the opposite. I know as far as I am concerned I see things which frustrate Brits and Cypriots alike and would very much like to try and improve/enhance aspects of every day life, not try and make Cyprus... England with sunshine! Heaven forbid.

If you contribute to an organisation then you are entitled to a say in the way things are run. As a member of the EU, Cyprus has a say in what goes on in Europe and in some cases even has a veto. The countrys say is not based entirely on either the amount it contributes or the size of the population. With a population of 800,000 Cyprus gets six seats and the UK gets 72 seats. The population of the UK at 60+m and if awarded on the size of the population would get over 450 seats based on the 6 awarded to Cyprus. So, even a small contribution entitles the contributor to an opinion and not necessarily in proportion to their contribution. It is only in a dictatorship that any one person or section of society has an unarguable right to enforce anything. In a democracy it is normally a simple majority that makes that decision.

You miss one important aspect of ‘normal democratic government’ that being respect for the law and its implementation. Cyprus is a member of the EU and as such has an obligation to uphold the rules and regulations of that establishment. Therefore at the top of the pecking order are the laws and regulations laid down and agreed by all members of the EU and these should take president over national law and/or local custom and practice, unless a derogation is agreed. From recent comments in the local press regarding Customer Rights in Cyprus, this is obviously not so. If you want to be a member of a club and want to be taken seriously then you abide by the regulations and that is often the source of ‘moans’ from the Brits that Cypriots frequently play by their own set of rules.

The Cypriots had a military event involving the ethnic groups on the Island and the eventual intervention of Turkey as one of the guarantee powers in 1974; the British had a military event with Germany in 1939-1945; the Arabs have had numerous military events over the last two thousand years or even longer with the Jews. The Arabs and the Israelis are still at one another’s throats! The GC’s and TC’s are still at one another’s throats. The British and the Germans have settled their differences and are now buddies in a democratic Europe. So, I don’t think it is xenophobic to make an assessment on the general characteristics of a people based on actual scenarios. You do not forget the past but you do have to leave it behind if, as a nation, you want to progress.

You have only to look at some of the replies that are posted here by some of the members of this forum to see where the xenophobia is deeply routed to produce the ‘them and us’ scenario. The anti foreigner view in Cyprus is endemic, I know because I talk to Cypriot friends and whilst they are very pleasant to me and my wife, they admit it. It is a simple fact of life, I know that and accept that I cannot change that opinion, although I have managed to convert some very anti-British Cypriots into, shall we say, more friendly Cypriots.

When you separate the Brits as a people from The British as a colonial power, the two are very different. We are often condemned as a race for the injustices of our Government over several centuries as a major colonial power. That would be like me blaming the Cypriots for all the wrongs of EOKA, who to the Cypriots were quite understandably regarded as freedom fighters as we regarded our soldiers as defenders of the Crown. Right or wrong depends upon which side of the line you are/were standing. But it was all in the past and it best for all that the slate is wiped clean but we all have to remember the mistakes of the past so that they do not happen again.

NO! I do not want this Island to be little Britain and change its culture. NO! I do not want to enforce either my beliefs or culture on others. But, do I want to see the quality of life improve for all those that regard Cyprus as their home?; then the answer has to be YES and if I can use my life experiences over the last few decades to the benefit of this Island then I would be happy to do so.

Thanks for taking the time to clarify your earlier post Robin Hood, you make some excellent points here. I hope some of the more 'anti-Brit' forumers read your post - there is clearly a genuine affection and appreciation for Cyprus and the life that can be had there, and your wishes are for the best for all on the island. You are the type of Brit who should be listened to - in my opinion of course! - and I hope you get the opportunity to use your life experiences for the benefit of Cyprus.....

Afraid I can't respond further this evening, the working week calls......
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Postby Cap » Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:07 pm

Oracle wrote:
Robin Hood wrote: But, do I want to see the quality of life improve for all those that regard Cyprus as their home?; then the answer has to be YES


So, the "quality of life" in Cyprus is below, or worse than, that in the UK? Can you elucidate?


Quality of life is pretty high actually, the basic infrastructure exists but is not refined.
I think 60 thousand Brits would contribute more to Cypriot society than 60 thousand Hatian or Nigerian asylum seekers...
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Postby kurupetos » Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:45 pm

Pet ownership should be banned.
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