Niceties and manners are a two way street, give a smile and its rare not to get it back in my experience, blimey in Cyprus was my very first experience of asking me would I like a coffee while I waited for the boss to give me a price, and a cigarette
course that can,t happen any more but a nice touch I thought as at that time I had,nt bought a thing. Would,nt happen in Ikea
Tend to feel that the younger element in these boring jobs are not there to be nice all day and actually I dislike staff who hover round me while I am just looking, maybe I look a bit shifty
Yeah some staff ignore speak on mobiles etc but I,m more concerned IF she is charging me correctly that is what I check the rest is hardly important. I do though get to know my local butcher, baker, kiosk, taverna and garage owner etc and they know me now, that is what is important, to nurture both ways in your own locality which works well for all of us then.
One of our local taverna's gave us very shoddy service when we took quite a few visitors there we complained at the time it was,nt rectified and no apologies were given the chef came out and was quite rude, we never returned for 18 months and we had been eating there for over 4 years, we went back in August, nothing was said BUT the owner spent a long time talking to us after and did some explaining about his life at the time, I wished we had known before what he was going thru we would have never stayed away. There is very often a reason, and one bad service really should not affect anyones judgement for good imo, sometimes we are to quick to judge.