Tony, I don't agree with your second option, but I strongly agree with this :
".... it will start of a liberation struggle through legal means, end all negotiations, end Turkey's EU process, close the green line.
Only then will we have re-established the problem as one of illegal occupation and land THEFT instead of a mere intercommunal difference on "re-unification"...... "
This is the only way to get them to listen.
Why do they care now, they have free passage, tourists (that we ourselves take over!), free medicals, jobs, pensions, why do they need to solve anything???? If we were to stop all that, they would have a need to negotiate, no???
Elementary my dear Watson.