Or if the 28 year old was your daughter
Incest? Dude that is gross! Every relationship is more or less prostitution.
Kikapu wrote:denizaksulu wrote:HE IS HAPPY AND SO IS SHE..WHERE IS THE PROBLEM? Do you think he is shtupid? She isn't stupid either.
(bloody cat again)
Deniz, you and I being from a TC background, or even those from Turkish background from Turkey, the family will never allow their young daughter/sister to marry a much older man, as the case would have been with Nadir. It just wouldn't happen if he was just an ordinary old guy who was 40+ years of her senior. But the fact that he is wealthy, I have a feeling the girls family may have even pushed/convinced her into getting married to him, in the hopes that they too will benefit financially. It really had nothing to do with their daughters happiness at all. She was a "commodity" to them. She was more than likely told, "he is an old man and that soon he will be dead and you (us) will end up with all that money". A very Gypsy mentality. I have no doubt this young girl was encouraged/pushed by her family to go through with this union. This young girl had her own dreams for her own relationship, and I don't think it was to get in bed with an old wrinkled tired spongy body like Nadir's. Ultimately, Nur, at 21 years old at the time, got herself "bought". It had nothing to do with love.!
avyixy wrote:Who said anything about incest? I meant those who have children would not like it if their daughter was 28 and was in any sort of relationship with a 59 year old and now I think of it if this bloke has any kids they would be around his girlfriends age so would he like it if one of his children was in the one who was seeing a 59 year old?
denizaksulu wrote:Kikapu wrote:denizaksulu wrote:HE IS HAPPY AND SO IS SHE..WHERE IS THE PROBLEM? Do you think he is shtupid? She isn't stupid either.
(bloody cat again)
Deniz, you and I being from a TC background, or even those from Turkish background from Turkey, the family will never allow their young daughter/sister to marry a much older man, as the case would have been with Nadir. It just wouldn't happen if he was just an ordinary old guy who was 40+ years of her senior. But the fact that he is wealthy, I have a feeling the girls family may have even pushed/convinced her into getting married to him, in the hopes that they too will benefit financially. It really had nothing to do with their daughters happiness at all. She was a "commodity" to them. She was more than likely told, "he is an old man and that soon he will be dead and you (us) will end up with all that money". A very Gypsy mentality. I have no doubt this young girl was encouraged/pushed by her family to go through with this union. This young girl had her own dreams for her own relationship, and I don't think it was to get in bed with an old wrinkled tired spongy body like Nadir's. Ultimately, Nur, at 21 years old at the time, got herself "bought". It had nothing to do with love.!
When parents care, Kiks, they always advise their daughters to find a rich husband. They never say a rich young one.
Kikapu wrote:denizaksulu wrote:Kikapu wrote:denizaksulu wrote:HE IS HAPPY AND SO IS SHE..WHERE IS THE PROBLEM? Do you think he is shtupid? She isn't stupid either.
(bloody cat again)
Deniz, you and I being from a TC background, or even those from Turkish background from Turkey, the family will never allow their young daughter/sister to marry a much older man, as the case would have been with Nadir. It just wouldn't happen if he was just an ordinary old guy who was 40+ years of her senior. But the fact that he is wealthy, I have a feeling the girls family may have even pushed/convinced her into getting married to him, in the hopes that they too will benefit financially. It really had nothing to do with their daughters happiness at all. She was a "commodity" to them. She was more than likely told, "he is an old man and that soon he will be dead and you (us) will end up with all that money". A very Gypsy mentality. I have no doubt this young girl was encouraged/pushed by her family to go through with this union. This young girl had her own dreams for her own relationship, and I don't think it was to get in bed with an old wrinkled tired spongy body like Nadir's. Ultimately, Nur, at 21 years old at the time, got herself "bought". It had nothing to do with love.!
When parents care, Kiks, they always advise their daughters to find a rich husband. They never say a rich young one.
That's true, Deniz, but the family also do not want to be seen as PIMPS and GOLDDIGGERS either by pushing their young daughter/sister to "sell" herself in the best interest of the family.!
It is very evident that love played NO part between Nadir and Nur. It was purely a financial arrangement, that's all.!
avyixy wrote:Obviously your friend is not thinking with his brain!! Sooo whatever happens it serves him right.
And obviously this is prostitution, just because the men don't actually admit it and try to put a different edge on it, she knows it and he knows it.
Think of what all you people would be saying if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a 59 year old woman with a 28 year old man!! Or if the 28 year old was your daughter!!
Prostitution is prostitution no matter how you try and tart it up!! (note the pun)
DANGAMAN wrote:avyixy wrote:Obviously your friend is not thinking with his brain!! Sooo whatever happens it serves him right.
And obviously this is prostitution, just because the men don't actually admit it and try to put a different edge on it, she knows it and he knows it.
Think of what all you people would be saying if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a 59 year old woman with a 28 year old man!! Or if the 28 year old was your daughter!!
Prostitution is prostitution no matter how you try and tart it up!! (note the pun)
Now... you can get 28 in 59 quite easy, if not twice - hahaha
denizaksulu wrote:DANGAMAN wrote:avyixy wrote:Obviously your friend is not thinking with his brain!! Sooo whatever happens it serves him right.
And obviously this is prostitution, just because the men don't actually admit it and try to put a different edge on it, she knows it and he knows it.
Think of what all you people would be saying if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a 59 year old woman with a 28 year old man!! Or if the 28 year old was your daughter!!
Prostitution is prostitution no matter how you try and tart it up!! (note the pun)
Now... you can get 28 in 59 quite easy, if not twice - hahaha
28 into 59........................but can you get 59 into 28?
DANGAMAN wrote:denizaksulu wrote:DANGAMAN wrote:avyixy wrote:Obviously your friend is not thinking with his brain!! Sooo whatever happens it serves him right.
And obviously this is prostitution, just because the men don't actually admit it and try to put a different edge on it, she knows it and he knows it.
Think of what all you people would be saying if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a 59 year old woman with a 28 year old man!! Or if the 28 year old was your daughter!!
Prostitution is prostitution no matter how you try and tart it up!! (note the pun)
Now... you can get 28 in 59 quite easy, if not twice - hahaha
28 into 59........................but can you get 59 into 28?
what if you added a little 69 onto the lovely 28
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