Bananiot,
Your posts reminsd me of that conversation between Makarios and George Ball, the US Undersecretary of State.
Makarios had asked if there is anything Cyprus did which bothered the US, or if there is anything the US wants Cyprus to do which it was not doing. Ball's response to both was NO. So Cyprus really never bothered the US or had a seriousy antiamerican approach.
Which then brings us to the possibillity that we have been victims not entirely of Cypriot non compliance with the requests of those that matter, but are more like collateral damage of other nations policies and pursuits. The important word here is ENTIRELY. Some of these policies, like the strategic importance Turkey attaches to Cyprus are more the result of a military psychosis than reality. On the other hand, if we had been a little wiser we would have understood even the psychoses of others and would have steered clear of them.
As for the possibility of a miilitary solution, I do not rule it out in theory, but in practice, when I see Cypriot culture and way of life, the conclusion is that we are not going to adopt the long term behavior as individuals or as a society necessary for this. We are not able to turn Cyprus into a new Israel.