BirKibrisli wrote:Come on,people...We are all capable of more than just black/white thinking...
There are no 2 Birs here...I am the same person who advocated a democratic Unitary State without any consideration of peoples ethnic backgrounds..I STILL believe that is the best the ideal solution,if we want to progress from two communities to One people,One nation...If it was upto me I would take a shortcut...i would forbid young Cypriots to marry someone from their own ethnic background...Imagine if every single marriage for the next 50 years were between people of dfiferent ethnic backgrounds..What would we have then??? A nation of Cypriots....
What I am trying to tell you now is this: If you want to have a unitary state,like I want to have a unitary state,we need to come to terms with our bloody history...The TCs have been deeply traumatised by the events between 1955 and 1974...They will not accept to put themselves in the same situation again...A situation where they would be at the mercy of the fanatical GCs who are still very prominent in forums like this......When I say that I get accused of supporting theives who want to gain at GC expense...Some even accuse ME of being a thief...That is a terrible insult for someone who have lost everything and lived in exile for over 40 years...On top I get accused of being a partitionist...
If we want a peaceful and lasting solution we must improve mutual respect and trust and understanding...These are not mere words..They represent tangible feelings and sates of mind which can be achieved if we try hard enough...To say lets forget the past ,just look at the future,lets all embrace democracy,human rights and EU principles,might make some here feel intelligent and morally superior,but it has no chance of success...
If you want your minority to trust you,do not tell them they are imagining things in the past,what they lived through didn't really happen...don't insult them,dont call them names like thieves or fascists or racists or partitionists...Try to understand where they are coming from,and show some empathy and compassion...If you consider me a partitionist,then there is really no hope for Cyprus,as Bananiot fully understands..Try to understand what I am telling you,and we might one day come to a point we can have True and permanent reunification...But the status quo have to end as soon as possible for us to have a chance...There will not be anybody left withing 25 years who will want to reunite with anyone...
Bir, we are also traumatised by the events between 1571 and 2010. You seem to support the Turkish propaganda which puts all the blame on GCs for what happened in the past, but an objective examination of history will show to you that it is the Turks and TCs who initiated the wars and conflicts and that it is the GCs who suffered for the longest periods and had the most casualties. These are just basic facts you finally need to accept. Nobody denies that TCs did suffer during that 1 decade, but it time for you to stop denying that GCs suffered not only during that one decade, but also before and after that decade also.
Therefore your belief that GCs should be the ones who should "pay" for what happened in the past is provocative to say the least. If you truly want a united Cyprus then you should stop trying to punish innocent people.
You say that we should stop calling TCs "thieves", "racists" etc. How about if we followed your approach and demanded the human rights violations of TCs as a punishment for what they did in the past (and what they continue doing today), would that be better approach? I believe not.
Personally I never called
all TCs as being "thieves", "racists" etc. What makes somebody a racist is not his ethnicity, but what he supports. When somebody supports the segregation and discrimination of the citizens of a country based on their ethnicity this makes his a racist (and a partitionist) and I reserve my right to call such people what I believe they truly are.
Cyprus is not the only country which had conflicts between its ethnic groups. This happened in many countries. The solution for the future is not to try to punish any side. If that was the case then we would want to punish you, and you would want to punish us, and as a result the circle of blood and suffering would continue indefinitely.
These anachronistic divisions that plagued Cyprus from the time of the Ottomans and were also forced in to the 1960 Constitution should finally be replaced with a modern democratic system that is based on the citizens, and not based on religious or ethnic groups.
In the 21st century you can not divide citizens into Christians and Muslims or Greeks and Turks. The citizens of Cyprus can be of any religion (or no religion at all), and can be of any ethnic background, not necessarily Greek or Turkish.
The religion and ethnicity of each citizen should be seen as his own personal attributes or choice, in the same way that is the team he supports, his political views or his sexual orientation, and these personal attributes and choices should not affect in any way the rights that each Cypriot citizen can have.
So lets stop the lame excuses for keeping Cyprus in the past and lets move in the 21st century. Many other countries, with much worst problems between their ethnic or religious groups, managed to do so, and so can we if we agree that this is what we want. (if what you want is partition, like VP, then nothing will convince you of course)