by BirKibrisli » Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:57 am
Dear Kikapu,
Thank you for the time and effort you put in replying to my post...I wish I had the energy and the motivation to give you an equally detailed response..But,to be honest,I am very disheartened these days about our ability to ever find a solution...I don't mean you and I,but those who are in charge of our fate,those whose responsibility it is to negotiate a fair and lasting solution...
I will make a few quick observations. I think we have spent enough time blaming the other side and everybody else we can think of for our predicament...This doesn't mean I do not appreciate the role "others" played in our conflict...The fact is nations,especially the big powers,always act in their own interest,and they see it justified to bend the world to their will...It is really up to us to wake up to this,and start taking our own fates in our own hands...To do this we must look objectively to the past,and the events which brought us here...And accept our part in it...The democratic system have a lot going for it,but it has one huge disadvantage...It is run by certain creatures called "politicians"...These people are driven by self-interest above all else...They are not about to be honest and open about the wrongs of their own side,as that would quickly put them out of favour with their voters...
We are stuck with each side pushing their own barrel,giving their own people the official propaganda line...This works well in getting them ,and sometimes keeping them in power,but does nothing to advance a solution based on truth and objectivity...
You and I can sit here and agree on everything but it will change nothing in the real world...The art of compromise is not easily practised by our "leaders",and when there is no compromise there can be no understanding or respect so needed to overcome long-held prejudices and animosity...
Yes, the ideal solution is one based on fundamental democratic and human values...But,No,that is beyond our reach at his point in time...We need the wisdom to realise this and do not insist on the impossible...That is the sure way to preserve the status quo,and forbid a solution...
Those who pretend to be the legitimate government of Cyprus,those who are in the majority who have had the strings of power and influence for so long, are largely responsible for promoting the necessary trust,respect and understanding between all Cypriots...The succesive RoC governments have failed to do this miserably in the past,and are only making a half hearted attempt at the moment...
Trying to shame the TCs into submission with taking the higher moral ground and harping on about democracy and human rights will get us nowhere...Once we all realise this we can look for other more realistic ways of solving the problem...In my opinion we need " 100 ovens full of bread"(to quote a TC saying) before we get to that position...Till then those who believe that "No Solution is a Solution" will be sleeping comfortably in their beds at night...