As one forumer commented, the reason why Turkey has a relationship with the "trnc" has changed since '74.
Turkey is now usng the TCs as a cheap bargaining tool in a misguided attempt to achieve its political gains.
Turkeys strategy is to present the TCs as victims in an attempt that they will gain recongnition, but no state in the world (not even a muslim state) wants to acknowledge this because it presents the worse possible presedent - basically the "trnc" is a shit cake no one wants to eat.
Turkey tried and failed to use the TCs to block Cyprus' ascension into the EU, but no state in the world bought this.
Turkey is even trying to use the TCs to gain entry into the EU, but everyone can see through this shallow tactic. If the polititians in Turkey had any intelligence the could be in the EU in a couple of years.
... and before any TC/Turk forumers comment on the EU, Turkeys' policy is still full membership of the EU whether you like or agree with it or not - and as for any comments against the EU ascension, I recommend the Greek story-teller Aesops fable, "The Fox and Grapes".
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes
As for the original question, I recommend that Turkey seriously re-assesses its relationship with the "trnc".