Acikgoz wrote:Come on Bir, "inflaming certain people" - it is a reality that GCs HAVE to accept else they go on torturing themselves and us.
Here's an analogy. We were a couple, we had a crest made just for our family. Because of irreconcilable differences we split up, it was painful, one got the china and the other the surround sound, the custody battle rages on but at least we are not in physical danger from each other any more. Given we are split up I have chosen a seperate crest from yours. Just because we are not together any more why do you scream and shout when you see my new crest. I don't blame you for flaunting our damaged history crest, stop acting like a jealous tyrant when you see that I've moved on.
Most of us learn as children to tolerate views that are different to ours.
Bir, sorry but you really do come off like an Uncle Tom. “Every tyrant who has lived has believed in freedom - for himself”
Kikapu - what are you on about? VP represents the majority of the North, who are TC. Aren't you aware that Afrika has a marginal readership. Just because you don't like what the majority has to say don't try to manipulate support for your views.
I guess I am questioning the necessity of having a crest at all,Acikgoz...
At a time when we are negotiating some sort of reunion...I have my own couple analogy as you migh be aware...I want the brute husband to get some counselling and anger management therapy so we can be reunited...
He has built a nice house and joined a nice club...We could be happy together if he shows some remorse and empathy and respect for our position...If not divorce is the only possibility..In that case we all go our own ways,no need to torture each other with our "crests"...