Well you said GC never ethnical cleansed (by your defination) TC. This is clearly not true. No body flees their home leving behind their possessions and worldly goods at the command of a political leadership. If TP told you to flee your home and go and live in a cave in the hills to get GC desire in Cyprus would you go? I don't think so.
I wouldn't go because partition is not my aim. However the dream of many TCs of that time was partition, so moving from their land and going to some other land was apparently what they wanted and obviously their aim was to take a lot more than what they left behind as it was proven later on. So I don't deny the part of the blame of the GCs in that time, but you should admit that TCs had a part of the blame also.
I am not saying we should get more than we had before. I am saying that the return of all GC to their former homes would mean that only TC pay the price of what happened and this is what you keep demanding. In a settlement we can go back to the same or similar % that we had in 60 as ar as I am concerned - but it may not be the exact same lands, for TC have spent 30 years building a life in the north, most of them without any culpability in what happened personaly, yet you want all of these people to be made refugeees today so that there will be no GC refugees at all. That's not sharing the pain of a settlement, thats saying TC will bear all of the burden.
Ok, first of all when I said that the TCs want to get more than what they had before I am not talking just for land. E.g. before they didn't have a federal state, now they want one. They want more power than before etc etc.
The problem that you mention above can be solved easy with nobody loosing anything.
E.g the TC that currently lives in a GC home and after the solution he wants to remain in the same village/town he can:
1)buy the house from the GC.
2)sell part of his property in the south and buy another house in the same village/town.
All this will happen in comfortable time frames. I don't think that a TC that will be given some years to build another home right next to the home he used to live (and which now will be his/her
own) should be considered refugee because he moved 100 meters further.
I believe that the problem is to agree on the principles. If we agree on those I would personally be more than glad to have long transitional periods that would guarantee that no Cypriot will have to feel like a refugee again.
For me our differences are that you want to offer these things as 'gifts' from GC to TC and refuse to accept we have any right to them or basis that they are a right.
No, what is a "gift" (I don't know if you can call it that way when it is forced) are things like federal state, and 50% power on things that have nothing to do with language,culture or religion (the things we differ).
Secondly you want a (small) predefined list of areas we will have equality on and I want a set of principles to determine what areas we have equality on.
Ok, now we come to the main dish. First of all I never said that the predefined list should be a small one. I believe that TCs should have this equality on the areas I said above, you can argue about some other areas also, but in the end we have to come up with something predefined. Because if it not predefined, it is unlimited 50% power on everything.
If you disagree then tell me how
in practice the TCs will not have the power to block whatever they want when such predefined list does not exist.