Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tyyip Erdogan said yesterday he will only comply with terms to open the border with Armenia if that country leaves territory in Azerbaijan.
http://worldradio.ch/wrs/news/wrsnews/t ... html?16253
As if the EU doesn't know Turkey by now.
And regarding your EU aspirations, they're banking on something similar to what happened at World Economic Forum this year:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1OOrjCfgfXA
Yep, they know you will end up simply walking out of membership talks because "it is Turkey who should be dictating the agenda" and not the other way around. Therefore it will be your fault.