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[ggirl]

I was in ayia napa for the summer, and this lovely cypriot bartender was hitting on me so much, asking so much for sex, I'm from a nordic country so I'm not used to men asking so openly about sex, but he really charmed me, I fell in love with him, and we had one night. At his job. I thought it was kinda strange that he never could take me home with him, but first he said he lived far away from his job, then he said he lived with another guy and had to ask him if he was to bring someone home with him and have sex, later I found out from one boy he is working together with, that he's got a girlfriend, and they live together, and have been for years!

But I've met many of his friends that are guys and they lie to me and say I can have sex with him and so on...

I fell so much in love with this man I was ready to leave my life in my country and start working in ayia napa so I could maybe be with him...

But I guess I shouldn't do it just because of him, if he's got a girlfriend, and I have no chanse to be with him... only to give him sex on his job...

Is this NORMAL in cyprus???? Or is it because he and his friends have been working too long in Ayia Napa and tourist girls have thrown themself after them, so there moral is weakened about sex and fidelity...

Now I am talking to some cypriots working in ayia napa on facebook and there status says they are in a relashionship...but anyway they ask me all the time, that we should have sex????

Maybe it's an ayia napa thing, or maybe having a girlfriend in cyprus doesn't mean the same as in my country...

[wallace]

I was in ayia napa for the summer, and this lovely cypriot bartender was hitting on me so much, asking so much for sex, I'm from a nordic country so I'm not used to men asking so openly about sex, but he really charmed me, I fell in love with him, and we had one night. At his job. I thought it was kinda strange that he never could take me home with him, but first he said he lived far away from his job, then he said he lived with another guy and had to ask him if he was to bring someone home with him and have sex, later I found out from one boy he is working together with, that he's got a girlfriend, and they live together, and have been for years!

But I've met many of his friends that are guys and they lie to me and say I can have sex with him and so on...

I fell so much in love with this man I was ready to leave my life in my country and start working in ayia napa so I could maybe be with him...

But I guess I shouldn't do it just because of him, if he's got a girlfriend, and I have no chanse to be with him... only to give him sex on his job...

Is this NORMAL in cyprus???? Or is it because he and his friends have been working too long in Ayia Napa and tourist girls have thrown themself after them, so there moral is weakened about sex and fidelity...

Now I am talking to some cypriots working in ayia napa on facebook and there status says they are in a relashionship...but anyway they ask me all the time, that we should have sex????

Maybe it's an ayia napa thing, or maybe having a girlfriend in cyprus doesn't mean the same as in my country...

It's a men thing.....has nothing to do with Cyprus

[Z4]

Ahhh bless. You sound are so sweet and innocent! It was a summer fling, move on!

[cymart]

Cypriot men tend to believe that it's quite normal to have more than one woman and that foreign women especially, are available for this purpose!
But try telling them that Cypriot women can therefore have more than one man and that foreign guys are entitled to them if they fancy them!

[Get Real!]

is it normal to cheat on your girlfriend in cyprus?

Absolutely! Next question please...

[iceman]

It's a men thing.....has nothing to do with Cyprus

Yuppp...as Eddie Murphy said "it's a men thing"...
do not try to understand it,you have to have a dick to understand it.

[fig head]

Ahhh bless. You sound are so sweet and innocent! It was a summer fling, move on!

[YFred]

Cypriot men tend to believe that it's quite normal to have more than one woman and that foreign women especially, are available for this purpose!
But try telling them that Cypriot women can therefore have more than one man and that foreign guys are entitled to them if they fancy them!

Kindly refrain from including all of us under such category. There are those of us who are very loyal.
As far as Cypriot women are concerned, there is nothing wrong with some men just because they like their women hairy and all that. Perfectly normal state of affairs.

[Oracle]

ggirl ... speaking as one who has a number of male cousins ... I would advice you to quickly move on to avoid spoiling the memory of a Summer fling. He would be thinking "fresh meat" as soon as the sun is up .....

[Sotos]

Don't generalize ggirl. Because if we start generalizing then we should be asking if all nordic girls are naive like you I mean come on! He is a bartender hitting on you asking for sex! What the hell did you expect?