Cypriot Nick wrote:Hi Zan,
Thanks for the comments,it was interesting reading. I have an intimate knowledge of the situation in South Africa especially Johanneburg and Pretoria and especially at the time of the negotiations. Unfortunately your colleague and your experience again shows a one sided picture. Your description of South Africa is not correct and I can say this from first hand experience.
I would question the story of the situation with the maids. I have volunteered in schools that were set up by the employers of these maids to give them literacy classes. Hardly a conspiracy to keep them illiterate. As for Mr Huntley, he is vilified by his fellow whites in South Africa. He has been confirmed to be a liar by his own people. That says enough about the man for me.
As for the status discrimination between the races,yes that still exists but it is being eroded. How? The younger generation are growing up together,they go to school together and there are many instances where they interact that has destroyed racial stereotypes. That can only be gained by integrating. The only discrimination that will still be in place in the future South Africa will be class discrimination. It is already taking place. In the 'white' areas that you described, did you notice how many blacks are living there? It would change your perspective if you knew.
However, by refering to the crime situation you have moved away from the rationale of my choice of SA as the model of solution. Crime in SA is not the result of the Constitutional settlement. Crime is the result of widespread poverty, an under-funded, under-trained and unprofessional police force.
With a constitutional settlement like the South African version do you expect crime in Cyprus to rise? I do not see that happening.South Africa has had three elections since the end of Apartheid. It has an independent media, an independent judiciary and a vocal opposition. It has the most progressive constitution in the world. If anything SA will not explode it will continue to grow from strength to strength. The prediction of an uneasy peace is incorrect in my opinion.
Thanks for replying Cypriot Nick.
Please excuse me for repeating my self but you are still working ion what SHOULD be and I from what is happening on the ground. The "Stepford Wifes"
syndrome is not talked about but is common practice I assure you. I have had it confirmed by a SA vicar who is part of my sons rugby club. He helped to train his maid until he could not even bare to have one because his conscience no longer allowed it. You could argue that the cost got to him but he is a rich man. It does not fit his makeup either. He got sick of the injustice and moved here.
I can also tell you of a day we had in an open air swimming complex as part of a hotel. I can't remember the name. We were told of an idilic town to visit through a mountain pass and that the pool was one not to miss. We found it busy in the car park but went in even though I saw some funny looks. When we went in the whole place was full of coloureds. We didn't feel welcome at all. One man didn't even stop his child from setting about my friends son in the pool a bit later. We felt intimidated. We stayed anyway. Maybe out of pure Britishness, we did not want to offend. Some stayed the same and a few actually helped us out in finding toilets etc....I don't want to paint a entire dire picture. The tension is there I am afraid.
When we arrived home my friends swimming pool motor decided to catch fire earlier in the day, and subsequently burned out the badly fitted Fuse Board. He called an electrician (although I am one I obviously had no tools or parts) who was a coloured. He blamed the electrical work on the blacks.....Of the cuff remark!!!!
Through it all I wrote my account of a lovely day when I stopped to let a family of black SA cross the road and how their smiles and many thank you's made my day even better. It also made me wonder how long those smiles will last. I hope that the surge in the countries fortunes filters down to these people in Townships a lot faster.
Now when I think of TCs in a Cyprus with no political representation, my mind always goes back to that moment. We are being asked to leave our roots behind in Turkey and the TRNC ( the only places we still feel we belong to) and become muslims in a Greek culture.......If I wanted that I would have moved to Greece. There exists no "Cypriot" culture for me to feel a part of. If it can't be provided for me then how will I pass it on to my children. Teachers aren't enough. If you are asking for every "Cypriot" parent to sacrifice themselves each and every one, then I am afraid your utopian spirit is flying high:D
These are the possible problems of Cyprus.......With our history we will need more.