by Oracle » Wed Sep 30, 2009 10:38 am
Hello Expatkiwi
I too have been deeply shocked by your revelation here on the forum and as I've already told you; I am so sorry your son's life has been cut short and you are experiencing one of life's worst trials.
This is a debating forum, as you know, so perhaps you feel you could be helped continuing as "normal" and posting. In which case that means you have taken the decision, in full knowledge of how probing some questions can be, that it's acceptable to discuss this in depth.
Who knows, it may help us all.
With your approval (inferred), perhaps you can satisfy our human curiosity as to why you have such a strong drive to continue your message of hateful (despised by the majority), view of partitioning Cyprus? Why?
It's a mystery to me, why someone without Cyprus-connections, other than some "friends" as you've indicated previously, would put himself through the emotional roller-coaster and expenditure of time, to post not one one but several forums to continue this message of desiring partition of Cyprus, plus independence and recognition of the "TRNC". Why?
As for my personal opinion to what you have done, may I just say that it is a disgrace to your son's memory that you have used his death to gain sympathy to your political position: although it does not surprise me. I agree with Sotos you came across as a racist and supporter of illegalities and you have not changed by this one personal tragedy. Nor surprisingly enough has it tempered your views to anything more humane, which is sometimes a consequence of personal tragedy.
Taking this as a paradigm, we learn that bad things don't only happen to good people ....
Finally, my condolences to your wife, both for her loss of a child and choice of husband.