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[fig head]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

[Oracle]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

Not liking your own company, perhaps

[fig head]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

Not liking your own company, perhaps

oooo okay lol well thats normal i have not met one woman who like my company they all feel threatening from me! i understand why so no blame whoop whoop.. av nice evining

[Oracle]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

Not liking your own company, perhaps

oooo okay lol well thats normal i have not met one woman who like my company they all feel threatening from me! i understand why so no blame whoop whoop.. av nice evining

Erm ... I think you have misunderstood!

Not liking one's own company means one does not like being on their own as they don't know how to occupy themselves or they don't like thinking or reflective on life. It does not necessarily mean other people don't like your company.

Have I made myself clear? .... or should I resort to text-talk?

[cyprusgrump]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

Not liking your own company, perhaps

oooo okay lol well thats normal i have not met one woman who like my company they all feel threatening from me! i understand why so no blame whoop whoop.. av nice evining

Erm ... I think you have misunderstood!

Not liking one's own company means one does not like being on their own as they don't know how to occupy themselves or they don't like thinking or reflective on life. It does not necessarily mean other people don't like your company.

Have I made myself clear? .... or should I resort to text-talk?

Far too many syllables…

[fig head]

...and there is always room for more hello's! It's a fact of modern life that people are more suspicious of other's intentions and always on guard and alert to being either scammed or ridiculed. However, you can't be defensive all the time or you will never have any fun! So, I stay open to the possibility that new friendships can occur at any moment and should be embraced with a passion... no time to waste!

Someone sounds a bit needy ....

i was wondering when oracle gonna say sumin about this
dear oracle define needy..!

Not liking your own company, perhaps

oooo okay lol well thats normal i have not met one woman who like my company they all feel threatening from me! i understand why so no blame whoop whoop.. av nice evining

Erm ... I think you have misunderstood!

Not liking one's own company means one does not like being on their own as they don't know how to occupy themselves or they don't like thinking or reflective on life. It does not necessarily mean other people don't like your company.

Have I made myself clear? .... or should I resort to text-talk?

i completly missed "own" before company lol my mistake...

[smowjoe]

well, I am glad we cleared that up! Thanks for the analysis, Oracle. I suppose you are right in some ways, I would rather be around people than be on my own but isn't that also the definition of being social? We are only human after all, right?

[Sega]

TWITTER IS POINTLESS BABBLE according to the BBC:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/technology/8204842.stm

It says twitter is 40% babble, and I am not suprized that it is n't 50 or 60%. But the truth of the matter is, if somebody babbles you unsubscribe to them so they do not flood what you see. You only subscribe to people who know what they are saying and point you to relavent sources.

[Oracle]

well, I am glad we cleared that up! Thanks for the analysis, Oracle. I suppose you are right in some ways, I would rather be around people than be on my own but isn't that also the definition of being social? We are only human after all, right?

Yes, being social means you are not expected to be happy as a hermit.

But, you are more useful/socially interesting if you interest yourself first. If you always need others to stimulate you, they will soon tire of your lack of constructive input. So, being social is about giving not just taking ...

We are only human after all, right?

That should mean we are creative and reflective ... things which bring something to a social-group gathering. You probably need time for these; quality time, alone time ...

[smowjoe]

Hmmm... I think your anthropological argument is unsound! At the base, human-kind is a communal animal... before intellect or cognitive processes are even considered. All interaction is based in "need"... if you didn't "need" to interact, you wouldn't, therefore such portals as this one would be superfluous... so, Oracle, that makes you as needy as anyone, doesn't it?

As for stimulus, if you are content with stimulating yourself, enjoy! I prefer mutual stimulation however and am very capable of giving as well as taking... you are stimulating that need, so, thank you!