everyone is different, and no one has the right to judge a mother as to weather she is bringing her children up the right way or not, if she has a maid, the mother is happy the father is happy and the children are happy and there is good balance in the household, then whats the problem.
I do have the right to judge people, how else is one suppose to eliminate things he does not want to have in his life. Critical judging is what helps the world progress. I never judge based on names, in-fact, I never disclose names, I only judge to better understand the world and things around us.
You do realise that some men find women cleaning attractive, I don't really see how hiring a maid will help the family, it will only cause future problems.
When one woman is incapable and lazy, a maid can only fuel this laziness. Some women are incapable of being mothers, savagely beating them, and having a maid is the only choice to eliminate their burden. I must say that women like this are very very rare, but believe me they are around.
I know of several cases were the maid ran off with the husband, I know were the husband sided with the maid, I also know of cases were women were incapable of being mothers, by savagely hitting their children and the only way to calm her nerves is to hire a maid.
A good woman does not require a maid, it's okay to try having her in the house, but truly, if she is responsible, as I am responsible, then she will truly understand that the true meaning of life is to work hard with people you love, hence your children and husband.
If you tried a maid then decided it's not your cup of tea, then you understand that rather your privacy is more important, and your better off either doing it yourself, or grouping up with your family and doing it. It's hard to know what to do, and lies are frequent in Cyprus, nobody wants to put themselves down or say that they were wrong.
people get divorsed for so many different personal reasons
Certainly do, but imagine this. A woman does not cook, does not clean, does no housework, her children are even taken to school by the maid. Which kind of woman would want all these liberties? A selfish woman, a woman who is in it for her self.
Now imagine this, that same woman, has to cook, clean, take kids to school you can only imagine that this woman will crack, as she is no longer getting her way, whether this means causing stress to the household or filing for divorce is another matter. Maybe the divorce thing might not go up sharply, it's hard to tell.
But like you say, everybody is different, until I see the person and analyse their body language and mannerisms, it's hard to say.
