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Re: cypriot men mentality.. HELP

Postby Sega » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:34 pm

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emma ruby wrote:can you explain to me the cyp man mentality when it comes to friendship, love and marriage with a forigner..!!!


You are on the wrong side of the island Emma ;)


lol... don't know how the Turks see foreign women, enlighten us.
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Postby fig head » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:35 pm

thanks Sega for your kind answer, im not russian nor Eastern European, im an arabic girl and i do have residency papers so i done need to marry a Cyp for all those wrong reasons lol, well the thing is there is a Cyp man that adores me, or at least this is what i think, he says all kind of lovely stuff that melt my heart, he made plans for us to get marry and have babies bla bla bla and i as a modern girl i think that marriage is not an easy silly thing to even think about unless you sure 100% you love your partner! im not gonna start a family based on hey i love you, i love you too, i`ve got big future im only 22 and i dont believe in just getting marry and set at home!! why i wanna understand the mentality is because i feel lost a bit i dont know if he is after sex or he might want me to show off having beautiful girl with him!! since all of his friends fancy me! i really dont know if i should believe him or not..

i just wanna know how Cyp men are like when they love, and when they talk about marriage
in the same time i dont wanna be judgemental since this Cyp man didnt do anything that annoy me, he respect what i want and he leaves me to decide what ever i want for my self, i dont wanna make a move when i completly ignorent when it comes to understanding him... we are so defarent and i dont wanna be a fool or make him one... thanks alot, hopfuly my long long speach might help
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Postby CBBB » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:41 pm

Have you met his family yet? If you haven't, steer clear of him.
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Re: cypriot men mentality.. HELP

Postby Get Real! » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:45 pm

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emma ruby wrote:can you explain to me the cyp man mentality when it comes to friendship, love and marriage with a forigner..!!!

You are on the wrong side of the island Emma ;)

Yeah, she’s missing out on a lot of orange juice… :lol:
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Postby kafenes » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:49 pm

emma ruby, when a cypriot man says 'I love you', he really means it .......at the time. :)
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Postby Sega » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:50 pm

emma ruby wrote:thanks Sega for your kind answer, im not russian nor Eastern European, im an arabic girl and i do have residency papers so i done need to marry a Cyp for all those wrong reasons lol, well the thing is there is a Cyp man that adores me, or at least this is what i think, he says all kind of lovely stuff that melt my heart, he made plans for us to get marry and have babies bla bla bla and i as a modern girl i think that marriage is not an easy silly thing to even think about unless you sure 100% you love your partner! im not gonna start a family based on hey i love you, i love you too, i`ve got big future im only 22 and i dont believe in just getting marry and set at home!! why i wanna understand the mentality is because i feel lost a bit i dont know if he is after sex or he might want me to show off having beautiful girl with him!! since all of his friends fancy me! i really dont know if i should believe him or not..

i just wanna know how Cyp men are like when they love, and when they talk about marriage
in the same time i dont wanna be judgemental since this Cyp man didnt do anything that annoy me, he respect what i want and he leaves me to decide what ever i want for my self, i dont wanna make a move when i completly ignorent when it comes to understanding him... we are so defarent and i dont wanna be a fool or make him one... thanks alot, hopfuly my long long speach might help


Well personally I am not much for love, but that's me. We are all different, and you have to show your worth before any decent person takes an interest in you, and I think you might have done that. It's the same everywhere though. Try to not segregate and separate people, people are not different dependent on where they live, but are different depending on their upbringing. Meet his family and it will tell you everything you need to know. How old is he btw?
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Postby fig head » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:56 pm

thanks CBBB for your answer and yes i met his family! its kinda scary cause we know each other for about 4 or 5 months! i met his family about 3 times so far, his older sister loves me to bits, i cant understand why would he take me to his house tho! and i seriosly know all of his friends,,!!! all of them.. im a very shy private girl and all of that doesnt make any since to me, couple of weeks ago i went out with my girlfriend who goes out with much older Cyp man who is married and he kissed her infront of his son!!! little small thing like that makes me think love might be just a game for fun! he might say i love you and take me to his home but he can be cheating on me right now!!!this is why i asked for HELP about Cyp men and forigners.. all the replies much appreciated.. thanks
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Postby Sega » Thu Jul 23, 2009 4:03 pm

emma ruby wrote:thanks CBBB for your answer and yes i met his family! its kinda scary cause we know each other for about 4 or 5 months! i met his family about 3 times so far, his older sister loves me to bits, i cant understand why would he take me to his house tho! and i seriosly know all of his friends,,!!! all of them.. im a very shy private girl and all of that doesnt make any since to me, couple of weeks ago i went out with my girlfriend who goes out with much older Cyp man who is married and he kissed her infront of his son!!! little small thing like that makes me think love might be just a game for fun! he might say i love you and take me to his home but he can be cheating on me right now!!!this is why i asked for HELP about Cyp men and forigners.. all the replies much appreciated.. thanks


I don't think you should have a problem with your man. A man who takes a woman to his house is serious thing. Don't over think, if what you are saying is true it's not a game. He has too much to loose, if his family accepted you, then that is a big thing.

Some men are pigs, but not everybody is a pig. From the sound of things your's does not sound like a pig. He sounds fairly decent. We are not all the same, if you want to judge him, try looking at his eyes when young woman walk past, see if he is perving on them, or notice his body language when he speaks to women. Compare this to what you would find in a known womanizer, if it's not the same then you have nothing to worry about. From what you said, I think you are safe.
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Postby Get Real! » Thu Jul 23, 2009 4:06 pm

Sega wrote:A man who takes a woman to his house is serious thing.

Err, I took a lot of girlfriends to my house so my dad could see them! :lol:
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Postby CBBB » Thu Jul 23, 2009 4:16 pm

Get Real! wrote:
Sega wrote:A man who takes a woman to his house is serious thing.

Err, I took a lot of girlfriends to my house so my dad could see them! :lol:


Did he start chatting them up like I did before my sons stopped bringing girls to the house!
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