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Moving back home!

Postby Sega » Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:56 pm

I basically wanted to ask various people of the forum the hardships of moving back home. Say, if you lived away for a number of years, how do most people find moving at home.

Is it easy?
Do your parents still think you are a child?
Do you want to leave straight after?
How do people find it?

Serious replies only as I think such a questions needs to be addressed seriously.
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Re: Moving back home!

Postby baby-come-fly-with-me » Thu Jul 23, 2009 10:04 pm

Sega wrote:I basically wanted to ask various people of the forum the hardships of moving back home. Say, if you lived away for a number of years, how do most people find moving at home.

Is it easy?
Do your parents still think you are a child?
Do you want to leave straight after?
How do people find it?

Serious replies only as I think such a questions needs to be addressed seriously.

do it and find out
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Postby tph2558 » Fri Jul 24, 2009 2:53 pm

i moved back to the UK after three years in cyprus for financial reasons, I hadnt been back to the uk for three years and found the place had changed quite alot with all the new highrise buildings and much money being spent even the buses had changed to something space age like, it has been quite a struggle with signing on and finding a flat to rent but i feel more secure now it is the people in the uk that have changed the most and as a 60 somthig age groupe find the younger generation so different to what i am used to, well you can try the uk again and if it doesnt suit you well you can return to cyprus, but give it time to settle back, Good luck :D :D
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Postby Its Me » Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:23 pm

goodbye.
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Postby Its Me » Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:25 pm

well by the questions that your asking, your parents are probably worried sick with looking for you, go to the police station, tell them your story, they will probably ask you for about €75.00 to listen to you.
then when they can not help you, phone your mummy and tell them to come and get you.
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Postby Linichka » Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:53 pm

Bugger off with your snarky responses, Its Me - this person is asking serious questions.

My opinion, from my own past experience, is that it's almost impossible to return to the parental household. Parents, even the most reasonable and liberal, do tend to consider returned kids as - well, kids. The situation is deeply uncomfortable for everyone concerned. and shouldn't be entered into unless there is absolutely no choice...and even then, it should be exited as rapidly as possible.

I wish you good luck in every respect.
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Postby Z4 » Mon Jul 27, 2009 8:34 pm

Totally agree, I hate sarky comments like that from members.
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Postby CBBB » Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:11 pm

Me too.
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Postby purdey » Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:24 pm

Me three.
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Re: Moving back home!

Postby Oracle » Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:28 pm

Sega wrote:I basically wanted to ask various people of the forum the hardships of moving back home. Say, if you lived away for a number of years, how do most people find moving at home.

Is it easy?
Do your parents still think you are a child?
Do you want to leave straight after?
How do people find it?

Serious replies only as I think such a questions needs to be addressed seriously.


Presumably you know it's for a short period of time, right?

However, if you all get on fine, and respect each other's rights and personal space, I don't see why it can't work out.
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