Alpeis wrote:denizaksulu wrote:Alpeis wrote:Hello friends, this is my first post to the forum and I do hope to see rational and constructive comments.
I am a Turkish citizen and have moved to North Cyprus nearly two years ago. My move was supposed to be temporary for a 6-months period, but things developed in a very different way (I fell in love with a Greek girl, but it's another story) than I expected, therefore I had to stay until now. I noticed that I hadn't know anything about Cyprus, Cyprus issue and the history of Cyprus before I came to Cyprus. I would like to mention that I grew up in a highly educated environment, went to the top schools and the top university; METU, in Turkey and eventually consider myself an intellectual.
At the beginning, many issues I read in the newspapers or heard from others were all Greek to me. Afterwards, I searched the web in detail to learn what happened in Cyprus: I first delved into the web pages of Greek origin, then of Turkish origin and finally checked the third party reviews and information about Cyprus history.
Now, I know a lot about the history of the island. Perhaps I now know much more than Turkish Cypriots, but what about Turkish people, what do they think/know about the Cyprus problem. I can easily say that the majority (perhaps %95) of people in Turkey has no single idea about what has happened here and what is going on now.
Let me tell you what they know about here. Whenever I go to Turkey, I always have a chat with cab drivers especially after landing the airport. What they and other people ask me about Cyprus is always the same!
Here are their questions and comments on Cyprus:
-Is it true that Turkish Cypriots don't like us?
-I don't understand why Turkey transfers money to Turkish Cypriots, we are wasting a lot of money for them.
This two sentences above are the only things Turks consider about Cyprus. Consequently, Turkish community in Turkey knows a big NOTHING over Cyprus.
I believe this fact is very important for both communities.
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You call yourself an intellectual and come up with statements as such?
How can you say you know Cyprus better than a Turkish Cypriot. Are you nuts? (You just admitted you knew nothing untill recently from the net.)
You would do well to ask yourself the questıons above and see what answers you come up wıth!!
I have been to Turkey many times and my reception there is less than friendly. When I say I am from Cyprus the response is 'Are you Greek?'.
When I try to explain that I am Turkish Cypriot the usual response is 'gavur dölü'. Now figure out to yourself why some TCs 'hate' or dislike mainland Turks.
It is admirable that you fell in love with a Greek Cypriot girl. It is unavoidable and good luck.
I believe it's obvious that I know more. Whenever I ask if they know XXX in their history I generally encounter plain faces.
I don't discriminate between people of different races, bloods etc. Those kind of people have definitely no place in my life. The ones you describe are also out of my interest. I just ignore them.
All I have to say is that you mix with the wrong people. Not eberyone is as 'educated' as yourself. Its like many younger people on the forum do not know what it was like in the 'old' days. Many younger GCs only know of a 'Turkish Invasion'. You have to put things into perspective.
If you talk to the more intelligent people you will find yourself 'lacking' in what they know about Cyprus.
What do you say? El elden üstündür. NEVER presume that you are better than others. Their are many ignorant people in Turkey also.
Stay on this forum and learn.