The Best Cyprus Community

Skip to content


The Foreign Groom

How can we solve it? (keep it civilized)

Re: The Foreign Groom

Postby halil » Sun May 31, 2009 12:47 am

Tim Drayton wrote:In the context of some recent pathetic attempts to brand a fellow forumer a ‘traitor’ based on the pure fabrication that he is supposed to have married a Turk, it is interesting to note that a television series named Yabancı Damat/Τα σύνορα της αγάπης which revolves around the trials and tribulations of a Greek man and a Turkish woman who wish to get married enjoyed great success in both Greece and Turkey. The fact that this series was such a hit in both countries suggests to me that old taboos are on the verge of disappearing. My advice to died-in-the-wool chauvinists in both countries who cannot stomach the prospect of marriages between Greeks and Turks, such as the real life marriage between Tugce Kazaz and George Seitaridis (pictured below), is that we are living in Europe at the start of the 21st century, and it is in keeping with modern European values that two people who wish to do so may marry regardless of their nationalities. So you can like it or lump it. Or else emigrate to Paraguay and seek out the company of the few remaining geriatric Nazis there with whom you have more in common than you do with contemporary Western civilisation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yabanci_Damat

Yabancı Damat (literally: The Foreign Groom, Greek: "Τα σύνορα της αγάπης" Ta sinora tis agapis, English translation of the Greek title: The Borders of Love

Image

[/img]


Tim ,
Head Lines today from daily Havadis newspaper.

Karpaz'da Eleni Ile Emrah Aşkı

Eleni and Emrah Love in Karpasia .

Greek Cypriot Girl Eleni and Turkish settler boy fall in love .

Her parents stopped the Talat at Apostle Andreas Monastery and asked for a help to bring back their daughters to them .

Talat met the young couple in Karpasia elementary school and asked Eleni if she was kidnapped by Emrah ..... because her family complain was kidnapping their daughter by Emrah .... She said she loves the Emrah and she would like to live with him .
Than Talat said front of the people to young couple he will asked to Christafias to be witness at their weddings with Talat ......

It looks like we are going to have wedding very soon and her parents will forgive her as well and Eleni Yorgalli and Emrah will be happy forever !
halil
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 8804
Joined: Fri Mar 09, 2007 2:21 pm
Location: nicosia

Re: The Foreign Groom

Postby zan » Sun May 31, 2009 12:54 am

halil wrote:
Tim Drayton wrote:In the context of some recent pathetic attempts to brand a fellow forumer a ‘traitor’ based on the pure fabrication that he is supposed to have married a Turk, it is interesting to note that a television series named Yabancı Damat/Τα σύνορα της αγάπης which revolves around the trials and tribulations of a Greek man and a Turkish woman who wish to get married enjoyed great success in both Greece and Turkey. The fact that this series was such a hit in both countries suggests to me that old taboos are on the verge of disappearing. My advice to died-in-the-wool chauvinists in both countries who cannot stomach the prospect of marriages between Greeks and Turks, such as the real life marriage between Tugce Kazaz and George Seitaridis (pictured below), is that we are living in Europe at the start of the 21st century, and it is in keeping with modern European values that two people who wish to do so may marry regardless of their nationalities. So you can like it or lump it. Or else emigrate to Paraguay and seek out the company of the few remaining geriatric Nazis there with whom you have more in common than you do with contemporary Western civilisation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yabanci_Damat

Yabancı Damat (literally: The Foreign Groom, Greek: "Τα σύνορα της αγάπης" Ta sinora tis agapis, English translation of the Greek title: The Borders of Love

Image

[/img]


Tim ,
Head Lines today from daily Havadis newspaper.

Karpaz'da Eleni Ile Emrah Aşkı

Eleni and Emrah Love in Karpasia .

Greek Cypriot Girl Eleni and Turkish settler boy fall in love .

Her parents stopped the Talat at Apostle Andreas Monastery and asked for a help to bring back their daughters to them .

Talat met the young couple in Karpasia elementary school and asked Eleni if she was kidnapped by Emrah ..... because her family complain was kidnapping their daughter by Emrah .... She said she loves the Emrah and she would like to live with him .
Than Talat said front of the people to young couple he will asked to Christafias to be witness at their weddings with Talat ......

It looks like we are going to have wedding very soon and her parents will forgive her as well and Eleni Yorgalli and Emrah will be happy forever !


I wish them all the luck and happiness in the world but advise them not let themselves be used as political pawns. This has never been between the ordinary people of Cyprus but a political one.
User avatar
zan
Leading Contributor
Leading Contributor
 
Posts: 16213
Joined: Wed Nov 02, 2005 8:55 pm

Postby halil » Sun May 31, 2009 1:06 am

here is the news in Turkish
http://www.havadiskibris.com/NewsDetails.aspx?nid=2090

Eleni and Emrah with Talat

Image
halil
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 8804
Joined: Fri Mar 09, 2007 2:21 pm
Location: nicosia

Postby Tim Drayton » Sun May 31, 2009 9:06 am

halil wrote:here is the news in Turkish
http://www.havadiskibris.com/NewsDetails.aspx?nid=2090

Eleni and Emrah with Talat

Image


An interesting and touching story. Thanks, Halil.
User avatar
Tim Drayton
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 8799
Joined: Sat Jul 21, 2007 1:32 am
Location: Limassol/Lemesos

Postby Byron » Sun May 31, 2009 1:12 pm

Responses like the above demonstrate that Greeks and Turks cannot be considered as one nation, each has his own culture and beliefs whether political or religious. The opening post by Drayton just shows that in our dreams we can possibly mix but when the dream is over and wake up we soon realise the impossibility.
Byron
Contributor
Contributor
 
Posts: 779
Joined: Sun Nov 23, 2008 5:53 pm

Postby boomerang » Sun May 31, 2009 1:22 pm

Byron wrote:Responses like the above demonstrate that Greeks and Turks cannot be considered as one nation, each has his own culture and beliefs whether political or religious. The opening post by Drayton just shows that in our dreams we can possibly mix but when the dream is over and wake up we soon realise the impossibility.


re koumbare stamata na mas zalizis...an nomizis oti gremoumasten pouta da chidkia sou, sousmas lio na pesoumen kato... 8)
User avatar
boomerang
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 7337
Joined: Sat May 14, 2005 5:56 am

Postby Oracle » Sun May 31, 2009 2:34 pm

Tim Drayton wrote:
halil wrote:here is the news in Turkish
http://www.havadiskibris.com/NewsDetails.aspx?nid=2090

Eleni and Emrah with Talat

Image


An interesting and touching story. Thanks, Halil.


And symbolic (see above photo) is who will always come between them.

The reality is not about starting relationships because we 'fall in love', but how sustainable relationships are when love's glow has faded, and only what one has in common with a partner, can be used to sustain the relationship.

For 'life' can be a very long time .....
User avatar
Oracle
Leading Contributor
Leading Contributor
 
Posts: 23507
Joined: Mon Feb 11, 2008 11:13 am
Location: Anywhere but...

Postby Byron » Sun May 31, 2009 3:49 pm

boomerang wrote:
Byron wrote:Responses like the above demonstrate that Greeks and Turks cannot be considered as one nation, each has his own culture and beliefs whether political or religious. The opening post by Drayton just shows that in our dreams we can possibly mix but when the dream is over and wake up we soon realise the impossibility.


re koumbare stamata na mas zalizis...an nomizis oti gremoumasten pouta da chidkia sou, sousmas lio na pesoumen kato... 8)


I am and never will be your Koumbaro ! :D
Byron
Contributor
Contributor
 
Posts: 779
Joined: Sun Nov 23, 2008 5:53 pm

Postby boomerang » Sun May 31, 2009 3:54 pm

Byron wrote:
boomerang wrote:
Byron wrote:Responses like the above demonstrate that Greeks and Turks cannot be considered as one nation, each has his own culture and beliefs whether political or religious. The opening post by Drayton just shows that in our dreams we can possibly mix but when the dream is over and wake up we soon realise the impossibility.


re koumbare stamata na mas zalizis...an nomizis oti gremoumasten pouta da chidkia sou, sousmas lio na pesoumen kato... 8)


I am and never will be your Koumbaro ! :D

I got the "never", but the "I am" puzzles me...

hehehehe...your greekenglish dictionary couldn't cope with dialect huh?... :lol:
User avatar
boomerang
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 7337
Joined: Sat May 14, 2005 5:56 am

Postby Tim Drayton » Sun May 31, 2009 4:33 pm

boomerang wrote:
Byron wrote:
boomerang wrote:
Byron wrote:Responses like the above demonstrate that Greeks and Turks cannot be considered as one nation, each has his own culture and beliefs whether political or religious. The opening post by Drayton just shows that in our dreams we can possibly mix but when the dream is over and wake up we soon realise the impossibility.


re koumbare stamata na mas zalizis...an nomizis oti gremoumasten pouta da chidkia sou, sousmas lio na pesoumen kato... 8)


I am and never will be your Koumbaro ! :D

I got the "never", but the "I am" puzzles me...

hehehehe...your greekenglish dictionary couldn't cope with dialect huh?... :lol:


Is this what they call a Freudian slip?
User avatar
Tim Drayton
Main Contributor
Main Contributor
 
Posts: 8799
Joined: Sat Jul 21, 2007 1:32 am
Location: Limassol/Lemesos

PreviousNext

Return to Cyprus Problem

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 0 guests