miltiades wrote:Milo wrote:Sorry for your loss miltiades .
As a women brit living in my own piece of heaven here in Cyprus, I am going to try to say without criticism that the women drivers of Cyprus are a big worry.
Yetserday I saw a young Mum take her two beautiful young boys off to school both sitting in the front seat without a belt , worse was she was belted in. I wanted to say 'no don,t' but I did,nt
The high rate of deaths on the roads in Cyprus are mainly under 25,s this is tragic and a loss of young people so needlessly, as just a much tougher police force and long driving bans when laws are ignored could change things swiftly.
My serious car accident in the UK was caused by black ice on the road dangers like that you don,t have here, just IMHO a police force that does,nt enforce driving laws already in place.
But I have become a better driver here as I have to be much more aware of the unexpected. One more thing is in the UK there are many many angry drivers because of 'bad driving techniques' endless congestion etc and road rage is a nasty element of this. That has never happened to me here and hopefully never will. Its actually a pleasure to drive on the motorways in Cyprus as they are so congestion free away from the big towns.
Saving lives by enforcing driving laws does NOT have to change any culture and should,nt.
My young female relation , 20 years old , did in fact survive although she is still in intensive care at the Limassol General Hospital . The " accident" was in fact not an accident at but one caused by carelessness and by what Paphitis called " unique Cypriot culture" .
I do drive when in Cyprus but as you say yourself more acutely aware of the unexpected.
It is a crying shame that aspects of the so called Cypriot culture " exclude any criticism of Cyprus whatsoever. Being of Cypriot descent its much more acceptable to Cypriots at large to hear it from their " own".
You will see on this forum a number of Cypriots who would react unreasonably whenever a criticism on anything Cypriot is made.
Recently we posted on the British MPs expense scandal , I in particular was very critical of these bunch of British crooks , yet not one single Brit came to their defence.
Accepting criticism of your self or of your country is one of the criteria in measuring your own maturity and judiciousness .
Cyprus is a beautiful island and the people some of the friendliest in the world , our weather the finest in Europe , why should we allow irresponsible and selfish individuals to get away with discarting rubbish on our beaches on our streets , drive like bloody maniacs , irresponsible actions while driving like the instance you mentioned with the two little boys on the front seat , and other behaviour that belittles our island .
I ought to mention another " Cypriot culture" that not only does it cause immense damage to our youngsters health but is actively encouraged by parents , I'm talking about the smelly , third world exclusive , smoking habit that it is still considered in Cyprus as cool !! As cool as picking your nose or farting in public.
Watch the Plonkers coming after me now !!!
I am willing to place a bet that your female relation was at fault for this accident...
Young females generally have reduced perception of time and space and judgment and she was probably SMSing her mates at the time of the accident or changing the radio station....