alexjames2 wrote:Oracle.... I dont have to justify my self to you but I feel Im wanting to tell you. My ex wasnt a nice husband. I knew when my eldest was 6 years old that I didnt want to be with him. Unfortunately I had nowhere to go and no money. He controlled everything. My son grew up in avery sad and argumentative house. I planned to stay until my son was at least 18. We slept in different rooms as I couldnt stand him. one drunken night he came into my room and that resulted with the twins, Alex and James! When they were barely a year old I slipped out of the house with just the clothes on my back and my children. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. We stayed with my dad for a while until I managed to sort my self out. To cut a long story short things are fine now He has a good relationship with the children and sees them regularly.even after six and a half years he still makes me shudder.
I came here to Larnaca because the boys loved their holidays here. They wanted to live here. My car and furniture were shipped over and I sent them to Med jnr.
I can say with my hand on my heart that this is all for them. Idont mind where I live
Well, I wish you all the best and am very sorry you have experienced such an unhappy time.
In light of all this, you are right to move on, if you think it's for the best. Nothing is forever, and we live and learn, and all sorts of cliches ... Cyprus will still be here for you to holiday, and once this is sorted you can keep posting on the forum to stay in touch with what's going on regarding Cyprus ...