David Carter wrote:Dear Mr Paphiti
When we exchanged a few private lines, I said we'd disagree about some aspects of the Cyprus conundrum and agree about others. You've raised one of those where we disagree.
However, if there are certain words - the ones you quote - in the BSW site that offend you, please suggest appropriate alternatives which would satisfy us both.
Meanwhile, all the best to you and yours.
David
PS: To other contributors, who believe I am in thrall of the Turkish Cypriot side, I am not anymore than the Greek Cypriot side. But, yes, I knew Mr. Rauf Denktas quite well and I can say the same for Mr. Glafcos Clerides, both exceptional leaders of their people. I feel honored to have spent time with both men.
Then we have nothing further to discuss.
My posts were designed to make my Cypriot compatriots see some reason and engage in some PR with Britain by allowing you a place of remembrance in the recognised RoC and for you and those behind the British War memorial in Kyrenia to respect the long suffering Cypriot people whose island is partitioned at least partly due to Britain's campaign of Divide and Rule in the 50s.
I believe my stance was totally reasonable and stick by it despite constant condemnation from my compatriots, but you are not prepared to meet me and the Cypriot people half way. Cypriots have every right to resent Britain for the calamity she has caused on this tiny island. Britain also has unfulfilled moral and legal responsibilities to the RoC.
In an email I received from your friends it stated the following:
It has always been a matter of regret that the Greek Cypriot government took such a stance, and that if politics had any part that the goodwill which would have been evidenced by their support for the memorial at such an anniversary would have earned plaudits in the United Kingdom. We said so at
the time. We also said that EOKA would also earn respect if they had said,
"in accordance with military tradition, that they would wish to lay a wreath at the memorial".
Then your friends would also agree that the reverse would hold true. If in accordance with military tradition either you, a senior officer of the British Armed Forces or the British High Commissioner chose to lay a wreath at an EOKA memorial within the RoC, then this would also earn plaudits from the RoC and the Cypriot people.
Why have you not done so?
If you really want Thassos Sophocleos to eat his words then an officer of the British Armed forces would request to lay a wreath at an EOKA memorial on 01 Apr 10. The British Ministry of Defence could also request that Queen Elizabeth grant a Royal Pardon to all 17 EOKA fighters who were executed by the Colonial Regime.
If you want sympathy and respect for your war dead then you and your country must also respect our dead. By using certain terminology such as "terrorist", and "murderers" you are disrespecting the RoC and the Cypriot people at large. By using such terminology you also disrespect my family.
Nevertheless, I still choose to not disrespect your war dead but you choose to disrespect ours.
Why do you find it necessary to use this terminology against those persons who did what they had to do in order to become free men and women? Why did your army burn Afxentiou in his cave?
Furthermore, your friends have chosen to disrespect the RoC by building a War Memorial on land you legitimately own as per your 1973 RoC title deeds but is located in an area that is under occupation. If those responsible for the War Memorial are sincere, then they would perhaps practice what they preach and lay a wreath to our fallen. You should then ask the RoC for assistance in providing a suitable site in the unoccupied areas until a solution is reached and the memorial is relocated to its rightful place at Wayne's Keep.
Only then would the adverse sentiments amongst the Cypriot people not be justified.
All the best to you and yours.
P