Insan, human beings are greedy by nature.
For example, if you are rich it is much less likely to be a communist. If you have more money than most others, you most probably would resist the idea of equal wealth distribution.
So I can walk in the shoes of TCs , and
if I could get 5 times more the votes than most other people, then probably I would not be able to resist my greedy human nature and I would indeed insist on having those 5 votes instead of having 1 like most other people. Then like a rich capitalist, I could find a million of excuses why what I support is just and right. So yes, if I was in your shoes maybe I would act like you. I hope you are satisfied with my answer
You are not acting in the way you do because you are a bad person, or a Turk or anything else. You are acting in a perfectly natural way. There are very few people that can control the tendency of human beings to be greedy, and are able to put justice above their personal interests, and I am not going to claim that I am such a rare kind of person.
It is this human nature which is fully exploited by certain outsiders to employ their divide and rule in Cyprus. What happened in Cyprus was and continues to be a text book case of divide and rule: Take a minority of the population, offer to them more (power/land/privileges etc) than everybody else, the minority will believe that those additional things offered to them are their rights (due to greediness), the majority will of course not accept to be screwed in that way, and the result is conflict between the two sides and the divide and rule is achieved.
The only solution is if foreign involvement stops. Then having more than others is not an option, and you eventually get used to be equal citizen with everybody else.