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Let's talk about love, sex appeal and intelligence

Postby insan » Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:28 am

In which order r the below things important for u if u r to fall in love or get marry?

love- sex appeal- intelligence



For me:

Intelligence comes first, then love and finally sex appeal. I can't live with a female that hasn't got sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs. I can't live with a female that has sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs but doesn't love(care, look after, wonder, respect, protect, tolerate, understandding) me. Even if she has intelligence and love for me but not has my type of sex appeal… We just can be good friends but nothing more :D



So what's ur choices and why?
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Re: Let's talk about love, sex appeal and intelligence

Postby doesntmatter » Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:34 am

insan wrote:In which order r the below things important for u if u r to fall in love or get marry?

love- sex appeal- intelligence



For me:

Intelligence comes first, then love and finally sex appeal. I can't live with a female that hasn't got sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs.


Hmmmm.

I can't live with a female that has sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs but doesn't love(care, look after, wonder, respect, protect, tolerate, understandding) me.



Aha.


Even if she has intelligence and love for me but not has my type of sex appeal… We just can be good friends but nothing more :D


OK, are you a female?



So what's ur choices and why?


Happily married so I must have all that you dream of. :lol:
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Re: Let's talk about love, sex appeal and intelligence

Postby insan » Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:53 am

doesntmatter wrote:
insan wrote:In which order r the below things important for u if u r to fall in love or get marry?

love- sex appeal- intelligence



For me:

Intelligence comes first, then love and finally sex appeal. I can't live with a female that hasn't got sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs.


Hmmmm.

I can't live with a female that has sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs but doesn't love(care, look after, wonder, respect, protect, tolerate, understandding) me.



Aha.


Even if she has intelligence and love for me but not has my type of sex appeal… We just can be good friends but nothing more :D


OK, are you a female?



So what's ur choices and why?


Happily married so I must have all that you dream of. :lol:


i'm a male and i'm married too. My wife began loosing her sex appeal. :( Maybe me too? :D
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Re: Let's talk about love, sex appeal and intelligence

Postby doesntmatter » Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:58 am

insan wrote:
doesntmatter wrote:
insan wrote:In which order r the below things important for u if u r to fall in love or get marry?

love- sex appeal- intelligence



For me:

Intelligence comes first, then love and finally sex appeal. I can't live with a female that hasn't got sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs.


Hmmmm.

I can't live with a female that has sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs but doesn't love(care, look after, wonder, respect, protect, tolerate, understandding) me.



Aha.


Even if she has intelligence and love for me but not has my type of sex appeal… We just can be good friends but nothing more :D


OK, are you a female?


So what's ur choices and why?


Happily married so I must have all that you dream of. :lol:


i'm a male and i'm married too.


"are you a female" was a joke.

The avatar you chose you would be a male...but then again maybe not, if you get what I mean. :wink::lol:


My wife began loosing her sex appeal. :( Maybe me too? :D


Maybe it's time for you to question your intelligence, sex appeal and "insan[ity]". :lol:
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Postby Snad » Fri Jan 09, 2009 7:17 am

Inteligence - Love - Sense of Humour - Sex Apeal. In that order.

Couldnt bear to live with a a man with brains in his trousers! :shock:

OMG that cuts out all men then doesn't it.

Good job I'm happily married :lol:
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Postby Oracle » Fri Jan 09, 2009 12:27 pm

Falling in love with such perceived qualities, is merely attraction in disguise.

Attraction wears off, and maybe that's why you are looking around again insan :wink:

Having said that, I'm a sucker for any well-read man .... :D
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Postby doesntmatter » Fri Jan 09, 2009 12:34 pm

Oracle wrote:Falling in love with such perceived qualities, is merely attraction in disguise.

Attraction wears off, and maybe that's why you are looking around again insan :wink:

Having said that, I'm a sucker for any well-read man .... :D


Everyone in this thread has so far said that they are happily married, except you, attraction worn off? :roll:

Maybe you can't read men any longer? :wink:
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Re: Let's talk about love, sex appeal and intelligence

Postby denizaksulu » Fri Jan 09, 2009 1:27 pm

insan wrote:
doesntmatter wrote:
insan wrote:In which order r the below things important for u if u r to fall in love or get marry?

love- sex appeal- intelligence



For me:

Intelligence comes first, then love and finally sex appeal. I can't live with a female that hasn't got sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs.


Hmmmm.

I can't live with a female that has sufficient intelligence to satisfy my intellectual needs but doesn't love(care, look after, wonder, respect, protect, tolerate, understandding) me.



Aha.


Even if she has intelligence and love for me but not has my type of sex appeal… We just can be good friends but nothing more :D


OK, are you a female?



So what's ur choices and why?


Happily married so I must have all that you dream of. :lol:


i'm a male and i'm married too. My wife began loosing her sex appeal. :( Maybe me too? :D



But still with intelligence and you still love her. Thats all you need. :lol:
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Postby Oracle » Fri Jan 09, 2009 1:38 pm

doesntmatter wrote:
Oracle wrote:Falling in love with such perceived qualities, is merely attraction in disguise.

Attraction wears off, and maybe that's why you are looking around again insan :wink:

Having said that, I'm a sucker for any well-read man .... :D


Everyone in this thread has so far said that they are happily married, except you, attraction worn off? :roll:

Maybe you can't read men any longer? :wink:


I don't discuss such private matters on the forum. However, you have totally missed the point about the difference between love and attraction.

Insan may well regret confiding losing sex appeal, as well you might, declaring "earnest" happiness! Frankly I have no interest in hearing self-evaluations from strangers, on how their strange marriages are going :lol: But I'd happily discuss the rules of attraction ... (no rules in love!).
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Postby doesntmatter » Fri Jan 09, 2009 1:55 pm

Oracle wrote:
doesntmatter wrote:
Oracle wrote:Falling in love with such perceived qualities, is merely attraction in disguise.

Attraction wears off, and maybe that's why you are looking around again insan :wink:

Having said that, I'm a sucker for any well-read man .... :D


Everyone in this thread has so far said that they are happily married, except you, attraction worn off? :roll:

Maybe you can't read men any longer? :wink:


I don't discuss such private matters on the forum.


Saying that you are "happily married" is discussing "such private matters"?

Maybe your idea of being on forums is tottally different to the rest of us. :wink:


However, you have totally missed the point about the difference between love and attraction.


Have I really? What makes you claim that than?

Insan may well regret confiding losing sex appeal, as well you might, declaring "earnest" happiness!


Assuming things about complete stranger (me) you have never met is very silly and childish.


Frankly I have no interest in hearing self-evaluations from strangers, on how their strange marriages are going :lol:


What you say there (as a female) can't be true, if it was, what are you doing in this thread?:wink:


But I'd happily discuss the rules of attraction ... (no rules in love!).


Why don't you start your own thread than?
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