Kikapu wrote:BirKibrisli wrote:Kikapu wrote:BirKibrisli wrote:There is no doubt you have moved on,Kikapu and that is very commendable...But do you believe the average TC represented by Viewpoint also moved on??? And when you say your close relatives have all moved on,what exactly do you mean??? Are they prepared to return to Cyprus and live with our GC compatriots if a solution is not found??? If not why not? If yes,why haven't they done so till now???I am assuming from your writings that most of your close family live overseas....Please correct me if I am wrong...
Yes my friend, I have moved on and so has all my close family members. We do not harbour any bad feelings towards anyone despite losing members from our extended family in the conflict, but then again, who hasn't from both sides on a small island like Cyprus. All my family from my father's side are in the UK as well as my sister in Turkey. They have built their lives in those countries, therefore that's where they will stay. On my mother's side of the family, they mostly live in the north as well as one or two in the UK. I have moved to few countries in the last 46 years since leaving Cyprus at age 9 and for me, if I ever do move back, it will be at later stage of my life. But if I were to move today to the RoC, I wouldn't have any concerns what so ever regarding my personal safety or being treated differently from anyone else in the south. I owe all this to my two weeks in Cyprus back in 2007 where I met so many GCs and never felt uncomfortable after the first initial day or two, and that was no thanks to the Fascists on this forum bad mouthing the GCs and their treatment of the TCs in the south. As you know, I wrote about that experience here on the forum, just like you wrote your experience of your trip to the south in 2008. Today, if I were to choose between living in the RoC as a EU member state or living in the north's corrupted society created by the TC leaders for the TCs, I would choose the south. However, if there is a peace settlement based on True Federation with True Democracy, Human Rights, International Laws and EU Principles, I wouldn't care where I lived in Cyprus, because I know, that if the individual state would fail my rights, the Federal Government won't. This is why we need a True Federation in Cyprus, just so that everyone's individual and constitutional rights will be protected.
I had a similar experience,Kikapu,and I also described it in my "dairy",but do you think 2 weeks as a tourist with your girlfriend (and I take it she is very swiss looking) are enough to make such an important decision...It is one thing to be an exotic TC tourist in the RoC today,but do you think you'd have felt the same if you were one of tens of thousands of TCs settled in the South and competing with the GCs on jobs,houses,or running a business??? when you read some of the comments from our GC forumers here,does it give you the confidence that they have all moved on too,that there is no underlying racism,not to mention bitterness and hatred towards the TCs??? Do you think the RoC as it stands today is ready to accomodate tens of thousands of TCs,and offer them protection from physical harrassment, discrimination and prejudice???
Bir, it is not fair to move the "goal post" half way through the game. You have asked me about myself and my families situation and desires to move back to Cyprus and I have answered you honestly. You did not ask me how it would be if thousands of TCs moved to the south without first a settlement being reached being a Fair & Just. Anyway, Pyro did answer you in a way I would have done, so I thank him for saving me the time. As for my girlfriend being a Swiss, it had nothing to do with me not being killed by GCs or they being rude to me. I look Cypriot and they just saw me. By the way, the Swiss girls are non descript looking, so perhaps you were thinking the Swedish girls where they almost all look alike. This is a common mistake the Americans would make. They would even ask me if I was identical with my twin sister.!
I had many positive interactions with all those I came across with in the RoC. Each and every day we were on the move and did not spend any time on the beach or in the pool of the hotels. Even the very tough bureaucrat lady in the land registry office spent couple of hours with me finding everything I was looking for, helping me fill all the request forms to get copies of the plots. The teachers at the school building where we were held prisoners for a week in 1963. My birthday dinner in the restaurant where a GC family paid for a bottle of wine and shared his own birthday cake with me. The waitress with 3 kids who's mother was heart broken seeing her property in the north and promising never to return because of what the "Turks" did to her village in the north. The lady who sold us the tickets for the day cruise where her mother never saw her home in the north again after 1974 and died of a broken heart. There were many more experiences as you know, but you get the picture. Anyone who wants to read my trip to the RoC in 2007, it is here.
http://www.cyprus-forum.com/cyprus11420.html
My intension was not to move the goalposts,Kikapu,but to bring some reality into the situation...I still insist 2 weeks in the ROC as an exotic TC tourist is hardly enough time and experience to conclude that the GCs are ready and able to practice full scale multi ethnic democracy and guarantee people's human rights...By the way,thanks for understanding the point of my reference to your Swiss girlfriend..It was obviously to highlight the point that you were a European couple on a fun holiday...Certain people did try to make something else out of it,but was promply put into their place by VP...I extend my thanks and appreciation to VP as well...
I do not dobut that you had a great time in Cyprus,Kikapu,and your dealings with the authorities were entirely positive...But the RoC and its people will not be magically transformed into a perfectly functioning democracy where eveyone's human rights would be safeguarded...Do you know if there is a human right's commission in the RoC? An equal employment opportunity commission? do you know if their police have been trough cultural sensitivity training?And government department to promote understanding and trust? Again I invite you to imagine tens of thousands of TCs moving to the south after a fully democratic solution...Pyro has told us that "it would be like a red rug to a bull"...Are you confident that they will be treated the same way you were treated on your 2 week exotic holiday? The Chief GC progandist on this forum has told us,in an unguarded moment,what the GCs will accept....2 smaller GC controlled states,followed by one large GC controlled state...He didnt say "Cypriot controlled" but "GC controlled"...There you have it...Do you still think your full democracy,human rights and EU principles will save the day after a solution???