Kikapu wrote:Bir, as a young man, I use to play a lot of chess with my self alone. No, I do not mean on a chess computer game, but on a regular board. I was able to play the black and the white pieces at the same time, which was very difficult to do, knowing what the other side's game plan was and try to counter it. I was able to shut myself off each time I played one side from the other. It took several days to weeks to finish the game. Well, I'm able to do the same thing here on the forum, because I do see the game that the GCs and TCs play on each other, just like that Chess board I played on many years ago. This might give you an insight on how I look at things here on the forum which means that I see things from both sides, but being a TC, I talk about things what I want for the TCs if they are really interested in a unified Cyprus and a better future for their children as well as criticize them too when warranted.
I can see where you are coming from,dear Kikapu,but life is not a chess game...In a chess game (and I've never learned chess,so correct me if I am wrong) there is always a winner and a loser...Perhaps you can draw as well,I don't know,but that means the game is never finished....
In life,especially life of a nation or a community,things are never black and white...To get along in life you must develop the ability to see and deal with all the shades life throws at you...
It is one thing to talk about what you want from the TCs in a united Cyprus,it is another thing to join those who see everything in black and white terms... And critices the TCs for seeing things in black and white as well...do you get my meaning? I am making myself clear?The GCs here with the notable exception of Bananiot and miltiades,see everything in black and white...They were right in demanding ENOSIS with Greece,the TCs were wrong to oppose it...The EOKA fighters were heros,the TCs who thought otherwise were wrong...Makarios was right to want to change the constitution,the TCs who opposed it were wrong...There was nothing wrong with the treatment of the TCs during 63-74 period,the TCs who say otherwise are liers and exaggerators....etc etc...You get my gist...
When you just keep criticising the TCs and fail to say anything at all about the senarios I painted above,you stop being an objective observer who sees both sides of the equation,and become one who sees things from one side only...I used to do this myself,for the same reasons you suggested elsewhere,and it took me some time to realise what I was doing...I was essentially siding with the GC nationalists and putting the boot into my own people...I was not being part of the solution,I was being part of the problem...I am sorry but that is how I consider your position now...
If I repeat myself, I apologise. At this point in time, there can be no systematic remorse, pity, empathy or understanding can be shown by either side as long as the war is going on. Can you give me any examples where parties or countries at war offer each other these companionate feelings. It would defeat the whole purpose of the war, don't you think. ? It is more like putting the cart before the horse, isn't it?. It just does not work that way. Despite this, wrong doings have been accepted by most on the forum of either side each side. What has it helped. Nothing, other than more abuse thrown at each other across the keyboards.
No,I think you are putting the cart before the horse...You are saying we can have PEACE first and then empathy and understanding etc....I insist it sould be the other way around...I go back to my couple analogy...This couple had a short marriage full off physical and emotional abuse from both sides...They have been apart now for a long time...Nothing has been done to deal with their age old problems,and heal the trauma...Now you are saying these people can come back together without counselling and other expert assistance,without showing any remorse or regret, and hope to have a new start and make it a success...Impossible dream...
The True Federation is where it's at, Bir. There is nothing wrong with the True Federation concept as it is practised in the US, Germany, Switzerland despite being a Confederation states and Australia. This is after all what BBF is meant to be, a Federation. This is what Denktash agreed to with Makarios, so whether the TCs will go for it or not, is besides the point, but I do not believe the GCs are going to accommodate the TCs by allowing Turkey supreme control over the island through some cockamamie phoney peace deal like the Annan Plan which was a loose Confederation which our good Friend Bananiot admitted it was a Confederation 4 years after 2004. A loose Confederation will only serve Turkey's interest and not the TCs and all our TC NeoPartitionists friends here on the forum are no longer interested serving the TC community but Turkey's, as the case was proven this week with Turkey's proposals in what they demanded for a settlement.
I have no problems with True Federation,if it could be achievable...In fact my position has not changed..I am for a Unitary state with full democracy and human rights,without the slightest regard to our ethnic origins...That would be the ideal solution for me..But it is not going to happen...Neither is your True Federation...It is too big a step now for the TCs...Viewpoint keeps telling you every day,and you know as well as I do that is the majority thinking...so what is the point in insisting on it...I can understand the GCs insisting on it,as they believe that is a political tactic in the age of full "democracy",and they hope and believe too perhaps,that enough international pressures will be put on Turkey to accept it,BUT IT WONT HAPPEN... So why are you,Kikapu,insisting on it??? Can't you see that by doing that now you are making sure no solution is found now and possibly never...???
I don't know if anyone is denying the past as to what happened. We all know both the GCs and the TCs killed each other to achieve Enosis and Taksim with the help of foreign powers. As to who did what to whom and how many times or what came first, Enosis or Taksim is irrelevant at this point in time, because they were all intertwined as one, because the war still continues from those times, or else we would not be seeking a settlement.
We all do not know it,Kikapu...Ask Oracle,Epsilon,GR,Paphidis,Piratis,boomerang,B 25, polio...need I go on???
Why dont you tell us what you think we know,and see if we all agree...Sweping this under the carpet will not work...Lets see how many of us know exactly what happened and how many are still in denial...
Because we have already tried the failed system in the 1960's constitution by not having the above principles and look where it got us. Those who want permanent partition naturally want more of the same because the end result will be the same as the last one, only this time permanent partition will be easier along with recognition and maybe even EU membership as an added bonus.
The 1960 syetem did not fail because there were not enough democracy or human rights...It failed becuase nobody gave a damn about these noble notions,and both sides had their own hidden ,or not so hidden,agendas..That is why it failed...without addressing this,openly and honestly and objectively,we cannot move on...
Having lived 25 years under a True Federation in the USA and 5 years in a Federation government in Confederate country of Switzerland, I strongly believe the system works as the plan I drafted for Cyprus. In order for that Federation plan to work, you will need to have willing participants, and I have found out, that the TCs (Turkey) do not want a working system in the form of a True Federation because they really do not want to unify with the GCs if partition cannot be gotten at later stage which the Federation will not allow where as a loose Confederation would. Now Bir, you draw your own conclusions from what is that the TCs (Turkey) want and why.! As for security, it can be provided with a NATO force, which Turkey is a member and that they will have some troops also, if it's about security issues only. I think it is more than just security and is the reason why Turkey wants to be there. Besides, once the BBF is accepted, the old constitution's provisions will be void and new one's need to be agreed on what can be in the new constitution. Guarantorship will no longer be accepted. Britain accepts it, Greece accepts it, and Turkey will need to accept it too, or else there is no peace. Turkey's Guarantor rights are only in the present constitution, but as soon as it is opened to accommodate BBF, all betas are off. Perhaps in Turkey's view, Denktash made a mistake agreeing to BBF, but we are where we are now and Turkey will need to make changes also.
Again,I understand why the GCs would have that suspicion or assumption about the TC motives...It suits them as it gives them the ammunition to press on with the democracy and human rights argument...But why do you,Kikapu ,feel the same way...??? Why do you not give the TCs the benefit of the doubt,and think they are truly fearful of GC intentions,given the past experiences???
I know that the TCs are too traumatised by the past events to trust anyone else but Turkey in the short term...Asking that they give up this protection altogether you are making the same mistake as the GCs...You are asking the impossible and hoping that international pressure will bring it about,despite the genuine TC fears...You too are disregarding the TC concerns...It does not matter if these concerns are real or imaginary....But they must be taken into account...That is the reality,Kikapu...Frustrating as it might be...
Enough for now...I need to go out and attend to some business now.
I will continue with my response when I get back....