First I want to make clear that the nationalists attacking Turkish Cypriot supporters of plan were Turks (Gray wolves) and not Greek Cypriots and these incidents happened in the occupied areas.
Graffiti happens in many countries in Europe in much higher rates than here. Bishops can say whatever they want, like you and I can. Anybody visiting Cyprus can see that Cyprus is a European democracy.
It is true that most Europeans will just read an article in the newspaper or listen to the news and will not investigate it further. But these same people don't care for Cyprus much anyways. They don't care if Cyprus will enter the EU united or not because this will not affect their every day life.
TRNC is not recognized and it will not be directly or indirectly. The support goes to the Turkish Cypriot community who are a part of Republic of Cyprus and should also benefit from the entry of our country to the EU. TRNC is just an obstacle to the support you will get and your economic development. Without it you would gain a lot more.