The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 cups of coffee
When things in your life seem almost too much to
handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough,
remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
coffee...
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had
some items in front of him. When the class began,
wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty
mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf
balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and
poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the
golf balls. He then asked the students again if the
jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured
it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up
everything else. He asked once more if the jar was
full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes".
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from
under the table and poured the entire contents into
the jar, effectively filling the empty space between
the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "
I want you to recognize that this jar represents your
life. The golf balls are the important things-your
God, your family, your children, your health, your
friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if
everything else was lost and only they remained, your
life would still be full. The pebbles are the other
things that matter like your job, your house, and your
car. The sand is everything else -- the small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he
continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all
your time and energy on the small stuff, you will
never have room for the things that are important to
you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to
your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to
get
medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.
Play another 18. There will always be time to clean
house and fix the disposal." Take care of the golf
balls first -- the things that really matter. Set your
priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what
the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm
glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no
matter how full your life may seem, there's always
room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
Even though the Turkish and Greek Cypriots share the same "golf balls", their differences about the control of the "sand", keep them from enjoying and properly caring about the important things; the future people of Cyprus, their children.
Does the happiness and future of our families depend on how much land we have available for sale? Is the sale of the best parts of Cyprus to foreigners the real “solution” to the Cyprus Problem? It is happening regardless of how our vote was, during last year’s referenda.
I have been to the Bahamas, to Hawaii, to Cancun.....
Do you know where and how the native people, of these beautiful and over-exploited places live?
It's not tool late for the Cypriots to sit down, share some coffee together and begin to realize that they share the same set of "golf balls". The sun and sand could be shared with everyone else, as long as they take care of the "golf balls" first, together.
I drink mine... "medium sweet".
