I said that you have to take in the REAL situation on the ground
The real situation is not just on the ground. The real situation includes that Republic of Cyprus is the one and only recognized state, and also that Cyprus is member of EU, which Turkey wants to get in.
It seems to me you think you can get recognition and everything you want, without giving our land back.
If you like the "real situation" as it is now, then stick to it, and rot in your pseudo state while Turkey begs for EU admission.
You simply can't win this war. If you want representation, legality and the benefits that come with it, then you will have to give up your dream of partition. If you want to keep illegally enforcing partition, then you will continue facing the consequences. You can have one or the other, not both. This is the REALITY, and no Bananiots can help you change this reality.