zan wrote:When in Girne and Lefcosa we went to eat at the Turkish cafe/restaurant, I could not help but notice the funny looks I got from these people that I had actually come to eat at their cafe when they heard my TC accent. I then started to notice that TCs did not eat at these places....Did I see it wrong? What is this utanmazlik? The TCs seem to like feeling superior. Those of us that have lived in a multi-cultural society seem to find it easier to relate. This is about governments and not about the everyday person. It is as unfair as Lena telling me that if I am nice to the GCs, if I cross over, then they will be nice to me. Thanks Lena but you could not be more insulting if you tried. My protest of not coming over is because of politics not because I hate or fear all GCs. I could care less if all the GCs moved over to the TRNC. What I want, and I believe what every TC wants , is representation and acknowledgement. It is those that think they are going to get rich by unification that are the danger and not the ones who might lose a house. They seem to want to sell their souls and their Turkishness for cash.
Dear Zan, i am so sorry if you felt that i insulted you. It was not my intention. I just wrote my thought. I did not said though that you have to treat us nice so we will treat you nice. Its not one of my believes anyway. I just said that I felt annoyed by the way you described our holy places and GC people and places. I felt like you insulted my religion while I was reading your descriptions about Apostolos Andreas. They only thing I said is that you should describe what you want but try not to insult us....not because we will pay you that back but because I thought you had more human feelings than others.
As for treating us nice and we will treat you nice....well it wont happen. Imagine if you treat some GC nice over there and you come south and come accross with some fanatics even if you are nice they wont be. I believe that we should behave and treat people as equal human beings with respect in general and not after we found out what they are and where they come from. Also we should do that without expecting a pay back or the same attitude. It will be great if we all were that good...but I am realistic and I know we are not.
As for coming south, well I used to challenge you...but not anymore. The only thing I wished you could do is to visit south just to see that we aint that bad and we dont insult or kill or harm any TC or Turk we see around us. You will be surprised how many TC they live and work over here. None of them would have done that if they had those problems.
You keep saying that if you ever accept unification, you will be minority. Well guess what your own people (as you call them) told you that in "your government" they feel minority. Funny huh? You keep saying that the GC will not want the TC and guess what you said that the Turks make fun of the TC accent of yours and other TC and as a result none of the TC go to Turkish restaurant.
I am really sorry if I insulted you, it was not my intention, but hey you dont need me anyway. You are doing a fine job by yourself.